DebraLee Posted April 6, 2004 Share Posted April 6, 2004 I have been thinking alot about the topic of Cheating. A suggestion that I might offer any of those men or women who think about being with someone who is already married. Meet their mate. Get to know them. You might find that you can really see things differently. Anyone else think this would be helpful? Link to post Share on other sites
saintfrancis Posted April 6, 2004 Share Posted April 6, 2004 It could be helpful in theory. However, I don't think that would dissuade a lot of people. Also, there are all kinds of practical issues. I.e. - a woman meets her MM at work, and they strike up some chemistry between them. How is she going to "request" meeting the wife? And even if she does, what are the two going to tell the wife about why they are making this introduction? It would be weird, I think. I understand the premise, though -- it's more difficult to hurt someone you know than someone you've never met. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted April 6, 2004 Share Posted April 6, 2004 I think what married people or people on the outside don't recognize is that FEW if ANY men say....I think we could have a sexual affair. THAT is something you could answer as a rational person regardless. What you get is a "GAWD I'm so unhappy....will you be my friend...can we talk so I can tell you everything you want to hear.....she is such a sexless bitch.....you are my solemate and love of my life....this ISN'T about sex....I love YOU and all that you are.". He doesn't spring all this on you all at once. It's between all the sweet smiles and glances letting you believe you are the most special person on earth to HIM. If it wasn't for you....he couldn't go on. He loves you with every fiber of his F*CKING BEING! THIS is how he ropes a woman in. It's NOT RATIONAL. And somehow...no matter how 'together' you are.....you eventually believe your love with this guy is sooooooooo special and NO ONE ANYWHERE besides him has experienced such pain and agony. You are his ONLY bridge between sanity and dying...... And you'll fall for it just as sure as I am typing. WHY? Cause he's sexier and more wonderful than any man you've ever met. Replacing him is about as easy as replacing a 200 year old wine bottle. He's TOOOOOOO good at it. THAT'S why I hate men like this.....and understand where the OW is coming from. She was NEVER a HO or Home Wrecker....what she was is a very loving woman who BELIEVED a sack of sh*t. Surely....no one could lie as much to one person....as he has to her.....and didn't mean a word or if. But SURELY he did. How can you blame her???? He fools the wife he has lived with for YEARS in the same breath. Link to post Share on other sites
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