WeAreTheNation Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 My best friend recently came out of the closet after yet another breakup with a girl. I'm not homophobic and don't mind hanging out with him still. But I'm finding that he is making moves on me. He grabs my bum, rests his hand on my crotch, strokes my back, kisses me on the neck...all in public. I tried talking to him but that didn't end well...He ended up in my room butt naked trying to give me a blowjob. I don't want to stop hanging out with him but if he can't control himself, I might have to. What do I do? Link to post Share on other sites
MidnightinMadrid Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 B**tch slap him and end the friendship,if he did this more than once,why did you still hang out with him? He's obviously being blatantly sexually aggresive towards you. Okay talk to him first, if it happens again,then slap him and move on Uggg, hate guys like that. Link to post Share on other sites
nyc_guy2003 Posted May 15, 2011 Share Posted May 15, 2011 My best friend recently came out of the closet after yet another breakup with a girl. I'm not homophobic and don't mind hanging out with him still. But I'm finding that he is making moves on me. He grabs my bum, rests his hand on my crotch, strokes my back, kisses me on the neck...all in public. I tried talking to him but that didn't end well...He ended up in my room butt naked trying to give me a blowjob. I don't want to stop hanging out with him but if he can't control himself, I might have to. What do I do? So let me get this straight (pun intended), you've waited for him to 1) grab your @ss 2) grab your c0ck 3) stroke your back 4) kiss your neck 5) get naked in front of you 6) try to give you a bj before you start to wonder what you should do?? I think after the first @ss grab I would've straigtened (pun intended) out the situation right quick and made sure there wasn't an opportunity for #2-6 to happen at all. Link to post Share on other sites
DreamerGirl27 Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 So let me get this straight (pun intended), you've waited for him to 1) grab your @ss 2) grab your c0ck 3) stroke your back 4) kiss your neck 5) get naked in front of you 6) try to give you a bj before you start to wonder what you should do?? I think after the first @ss grab I would've straigtened (pun intended) out the situation right quick and made sure there wasn't an opportunity for #2-6 to happen at all. I lol'd. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 Homophobia means being afraid of gay people. Has nothing to do with not wanting to be hit on or touched by some one you are not interested in. The way you write this entire post really makes me wonder about you. As in if this is even a real situation. You write that he touches your privates, and kiss’s your neck … in public. I really don’t understand what doing this in public has to do with anything. I mean I guess it makes it worse considering some girlfriends don’t even like getting their butts grabbed in public but you seem to sit here wondering what to do about it. Why don’t you know what to do about it? I don’t understand why you are asking “what do I do?” Considering I’m straight the first time a guy started grabbing at my privates and kissing me I would just end the friendship. You should do what ever it is you want to do. I’ve never had a guy do these things to me, but a girl I was friends with once started showing me unwanted attention and when she kissed out of the blue I was so caught by surprise I pushed her away from me. I stopped being friends with the person right then there because I wasn’t attracted to her and it was awkward that she liked me. You do what you want though. I just find it interesting you have to ask. Don’t you know what to do? (sorry to ask again but please answer and bring me into your thinking) Link to post Share on other sites
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