Uncomfortable with girlfriend hanging out with another guy?

[serious]

Well I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now but something which is really making me feel uncomfortable and jealous for the past couple weeks is that she prefers to hang out with another guy.

 

She keeps 'rejecting' me everytime I ask if she wants to hang out, just me and her. But each time I ask if she wants to hang out with me and friends she decides to come along?

 

Since the start of our relationship, I knew she was pretty good friends with this other guy (who has been making me feel uncomfortable) and at one time she accidentally said that she was 'into-him' him last year.

 

This weekend shes going shops with him, just her and him. I've attempted to befriend this guy, but during the conversations I've had him with he sounds like a massive player.

 

Should I tell her I feel uncomfortable with her hanging out with this guy?

Edited April 12, 2011 by serious

[jnj express]

Sounds like you do not have an exclusive relationship---so why don't you just date others also---at least let her know you can hook-up with others just like she does

[PegNosePete]

Sounds like a job for the NEXT button.

3 months is not a big investment so just cut your losses and move on, if this is how she treats you at the beginning then it will not get better later on.

[Feelin Frisky]

What makes you think you are not just a fling or the other guy in her relationship with him? Three months doesn't mean you have dibbs.

[Kinder-Horror]

It's weird because if she was into the guy (and I still think she is), it seems like she would hang out with you in private and NOT around groups/friends (so she can appear available) - so it's kind of funny that she chooses to hang out with you only in public. It just sounds like you guys aren't exclusive. So if you have had the exclusivity talk, then uh YES you should tell her it bothers you..

 

If you havent... you should just move on. Someone that wants to be with you would ...well, want to be with you. In public and alone.

[Memphis Raines]

Well I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now but something which is really making me feel uncomfortable and jealous for the past couple weeks is that she prefers to hang out with another guy.

 

I'd say its time to move on. Find yourself someone that knows how to respect a boyfriend.

[WorldIsYours]

Well I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now but something which is really making me feel uncomfortable and jealous for the past couple weeks is that she prefers to hang out with another guy.

 

She keeps 'rejecting' me everytime I ask if she wants to hang out, just me and her. But each time I ask if she wants to hang out with me and friends she decides to come along?

 

Yessir. Sounds like she's been seeing that guy on the low, dude.

 

Since the start of our relationship, I knew she was pretty good friends with this other guy (who has been making me feel uncomfortable) and at one time she accidentally said that she was 'into-him' him last year.

 

Oh no, you don't just "accidently" say something like that.

 

This weekend shes going shops with him, just her and him.

 

She goes shopping with this guy alone but won't even go out with her own boyfriend alone?????? What the **** is wrong with this picture? Dude she's cheating.

 

I've attempted to befriend this guy, but during the conversations I've had him with he sounds like a massive player.

 

Don't ever suck up to someone who's been cheating with your girl man. That's a cause for getting an ass whipping.

 

Should I tell her I feel uncomfortable with her hanging out with this guy?

 

You should tell her she can have him full-time because the relationship is over, and you don't want her skank ass. Find a real woman, man.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Should I tell her I feel uncomfortable with her hanging out with this guy?

 

 

 

Yes, definitely... for the only reason he is 'hanging out'... is because he sees himself as being in line for her affections.

 

Yet I think you're going to find that you are way too late...

 

 

It still makes sense to stand up for yourself in discussing it with her, rather than being walked all over and made a fool of.