hurley21 Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 If there was any financially possible way for me to not be in this situation, I'd find a way out. I am intelligent and crafty about logistics. So, I need advice on how to do this: My ex-fiance has emotionally abused me for the last 4 years and I have decided that we need to split. We are on a joint lease until the end of August. We are both college students and therefore have no jobs. Neither of us have friends or family that can take us in. (The whole isolation thing. We were severely co-dependent.) So, with that, I need to know how to last 4 months under the same roof as him without being drawn back into a relationship with him if (when) he tries to manipulate me. Please offer any tips or similar experiences. Thanks. If there is a will, there is way, right?! Link to post Share on other sites
zakfar Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 I'm sorry for the situation you are going through. Yes! If there is a will, there is indeed a way. You should not live with him if he is abusing you, no matter if that's physical or psychological violence. I don't know much about real estate. I think you should talk to the real estate agent/broker to find out the possibilities if you want to sell the house before the full payments. You pay the lease, so you can afford to pay the rent as well. If not alone, you can share with someone (a girl from your college) an apartment or something. If you can't sell the house before the full payments, and can't afford to rent, then you might need to have a part time job so that you can afford your rent. It's not a big deal if you don't have to face lot of expenditures. I will highly recommend you to separate from him. You should never let someone abuse you. You can ask a friend to let you live for the next few days, until you get an accommodation. I hope it helps. Zakfar. Link to post Share on other sites
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