Dumping Them But Not Making It Final...nice To Have Someone To Fall Back On?

[Odradek]

Alright.

 

when you girls dump a guy (or guys dump a girl) because you found someone new, is it or is it not true that in most cases you'll try to keep the ex in reserve in case it doesn't work out with the new guy (girl).

 

If so, what are the most common strategies you use for doing so.

[hurtingandconfused]

If you are trying to do this I suggest that you don't.

 

This technique is very hurtful.

 

 

Either you(or whoever) stays with the old person, or you start fresh when the new person. No regrets, no strings attached. Simple as that.

[DebraLee]

I'm not sure why you wold ask such a question but I beleive my husband's ExWife and her new husband are curently going through this. Im sure she could help you out.

[Odradek]

No I'm not trying to do anything like that, but I believe my ex gf is doing it with me. Just trying to get some impressions on the matter.