Craig2425 Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 Everyday I try nc and get sucked in with a little Conversation abiut our kid that quickly gets turned into other stuff. I feel like every morning I wake up and say today I will make it thru with nc and by the afternoon comes around I'm saying I'll have to start over tomorrow. Link to post Share on other sites
live4moment Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 Really I feel the whole thing sucks when you have a kid and aren't together. Right now the biggest thing is my 3 year old telling me all about what daddy is doing. And I can't talk to my ex on the phone we just text, or there would be to much other conersation. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Craig2425 Posted April 14, 2011 Author Share Posted April 14, 2011 Yeah my 3 year old has been asking me why I don't live with her anymore and why I was staying there again for a little bit. I don't even know how to answer that. I feel like I'm going to have to go nc at all unless it's abiut or kid. If the subject gets changed I guess I'll have to hang up or something. Link to post Share on other sites
PollyIvy Posted April 17, 2011 Share Posted April 17, 2011 My husband and I are separating next month, when we both move. I am taking the kids. I am going to try LC once we move. I want him back now, but that may change once I get away from him. My plan is to set up a computer in the kitchen so the kids and their father can do messenger whenever they want, and I won't be involved. He does LC on me - barely talks to me, and even announced in MC 'well I am certainly not going to call you every day!' So this is all for me, but it's so weird with the kids. It's like not being a family. How is it going? Link to post Share on other sites
marqueemoon4 Posted April 17, 2011 Share Posted April 17, 2011 yea, I sucked at it... from time to time I would change conversations about our son to her and I. don't do it anymore though.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Craig2425 Posted April 17, 2011 Author Share Posted April 17, 2011 yea, I sucked at it... from time to time I would change conversations about our son to her and I. don't do it anymore though.. I do this all the time now. Just pushing her further away and giving her more power but I can't stop myself even tho I know I shouldn't be doing it. Link to post Share on other sites
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