ConflictedGirl Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 the other day i think my ex blocked me on a social site then unblocked me 2 days later i am still not sure...its been about a month since we last spoke , he dumped me over somehting stupid & im sure he didnt actually expect it to end like that who knows...in efforts to "move on" i started dating someone new like 2 days ago... & yesterday after i put a picture on my facebook of me & this new guy...i noticed my ex deleted both his facebook & twitter accounts..my assumption would be he saw it & that was his reaction...could it really be that big of a coincidence? i mean it could but really?...he really hurt me since the break up and the pic wasnt out of spite im jus trying to keep distracted..i figured if he saw it it would upset him likewise with me but i didnt even think hed look...i didnt expect him to react at all..he has been wallowing in his pride for a month...i think its the reason he deleted his accounts but im not 100%..may even be something totally unrelated...he could have a new girl..who knows.. in the event that it was because i have a "rebound" what do i do now since they happened simultaneously & its only the obvious answer?...what does it even mean? Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Might be coincidence, probably not. Regardless, you are dating someone else now he should be your focus not what your ex does. Link to post Share on other sites
Cassandra92 Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Do you really need to do anything? Maybe he saw the picture and got so upset he deleted his accounts, but you'll probably never know and shouldn't care either. Focus on yourself and getting to know this new person. How he feels is not your concern, in fact this could even be his karma for the way he treated you, so let him have it. Link to post Share on other sites
GrayClouds Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Does the new quay know how much your still obsessing over your ex? It is really not a healthy way to start a relationship when one half of the couple is still caught in the pass one still. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Are you sure he didn't just block you.. When someone blocks you, their entire profile and all ability to see it disappear. if you had it bookmarked then the bookmark will return the error that the profile no longer exists. Link to post Share on other sites
GrayClouds Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Does the new quay know how much your still obsessing over your ex? It is really not a healthy way to start a relationship when one half of the couple is still caught in the pass one still. quay = guy Link to post Share on other sites
Jaraka Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 He probably got jealous and deleted his accounts but oh well. You should concentrate on your new guy instead of your ex anyways. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConflictedGirl Posted April 14, 2011 Author Share Posted April 14, 2011 Does the new quay know how much your still obsessing over your ex? It is really not a healthy way to start a relationship when one half of the couple is still caught in the pass one still. well....im not too sure...i think i may have made a mistake by saying yes to going out with him cause as soon as i did i started to feel bad...i dont want to hurt any1....but i liked this guy but as soon as we started dating my ex consumed my head even more...so i dont want to use any1 or lead them on but this is clearly looking like a rebound for me so i may have to end it...but im trying to ignore my exes behaviour Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConflictedGirl Posted April 14, 2011 Author Share Posted April 14, 2011 Are you sure he didn't just block you.. When someone blocks you, their entire profile and all ability to see it disappear. if you had it bookmarked then the bookmark will return the error that the profile no longer exists. i thought of this...so i asked my friend n she said the account was gone...& when u block on twitter the account doesn't go away..its completely gone...im pretty sure its deleted Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Why would a person delete his entire facebook account over you dating someone ? that seems a bit extreme... what do you think all of his FB friends would think ? also.. it is possible that he went thru your entire friend list and blocked them all or blocked the ones that counted.... that way he would disappear to all or many of your friends too. did he have many FB friends ... Family ? Link to post Share on other sites
GrayClouds Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 well....im not too sure...i think i may have made a mistake by saying yes to going out with him cause as soon as i did i started to feel bad...i dont want to hurt any1....but i liked this guy but as soon as we started dating my ex consumed my head even more...so i dont want to use any1 or lead them on but this is clearly looking like a rebound for me so i may have to end it...but im trying to ignore my exes behaviour I compliment you on your insight, I suspect if the new guy is something special he will understand and give you the time you need to heal, and who know if your both single at that point you can start up in better place. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConflictedGirl Posted April 14, 2011 Author Share Posted April 14, 2011 Why would a person delete his entire facebook account over you dating someone ? that seems a bit extreme... what do you think all of his FB friends would think ? also.. it is possible that he went thru your entire friend list and blocked them all or blocked the ones that counted.... that way he would disappear to all or many of your friends too. did he have many FB friends ... Family ? well we had ALOT of friends in common..but true he could have blocked my friend too but i doubt it..& lol it is extreme but its not too far out of his charcater...he may blame it on something else if his friends ask...but i used to use a trick to see if i was blocked..because if some1 comments on ur picture even if they block u..u still see the comments..u just see "facebook user"...the commenst r completely gone..unless he went through my pics deleted his comments..lol...it poits to being deleted since his twitter is also gone Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConflictedGirl Posted April 14, 2011 Author Share Posted April 14, 2011 I compliment you on your insight, I suspect if the new guy is something special he will understand and give you the time you need to heal, and who know if your both single at that point you can start up in better place. kinda how i started with my ex....he "waited" for me to get over my previous ex..but yea..i feel i may give my new relationship a week or more to see..but if i can tell its not going anywhere ill end it...i just dont want to wallow in self pity of my ex you know? Link to post Share on other sites
GrayClouds Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 kinda how i started with my ex....he "waited" for me to get over my previous ex..but yea..i feel i may give my new relationship a week or more to see..but if i can tell its not going anywhere ill end it...i just dont want to wallow in self pity of my ex you know? Sound like you have not learn to enjoy being alone, how to enjoy being single... maybe it time to take some time off from all relationships and perfect your relationship with "you". Link to post Share on other sites
homebrew Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Every other post on here has something to do with Facebook... I can tell you at least 10 relationships of friends of mine that were ruined because of the use of Facebook... Every couple I know where someone in the relationship / marriage uses Facebook... problems / issues / drama / fights / arguments have stemmed from the use of Facebook. I can tell you 3 marriages that I knew the people that were ruined because of the use of Facebook... That is not counting all the friends of friends stories I have heard or the 1000 here on Loveshack... Facebook = Relationship Killer / Homewrecker / Needless Drama How many stories to people have to hear before they wise up? Due to all the horror stories that we have all heard about Facebook... Most of the women I know now equate men that use Facebook to that of men with an STD. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Every couple I know where someone in the relationship / marriage uses Facebook... problems / issues / drama / fights / arguments have stemmed from the use of Facebook. My wife and I both use facebook.. never has there ever been an issue of any kind and can pretty much say there won't be... We both have friends and family.. In fact my FB account even has about 5-6 people from loveshack on it.. I can see where FB can cause problems but those problems would have existed anyhow.. trust issues etc etc and FB just brings those issue out into front view.. I also think sometimes people think FB is their real identity, but in reality it is only an online persona. Each person who sets up an account has their own use for it.. I know people that only put family on their friends list and I know people who would friend a concrete post if it meant their friendship count went up. Link to post Share on other sites
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