BlindRage Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 It makes me wonder if she still remember that or remembers of my existence. Just sharing a thought. Link to post Share on other sites
collegeguy_24 Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 I know how you feel. April 2nd wouldn't been the anniversary of me and the ex. All we have to do in times like these is to try and keep our minds off it, spend with our new bf/gf, spend time with friends, play video games or watch a good movie. Link to post Share on other sites
SoulFinger Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 She would remember Blind Rage but she most probably won't acknowledge it. Like Collegeguy mine was on the 2nd April as well... 5 yrs.Mine didn't acknowledge ours She is on her third rebound since we broke up last year June and it hurts like hell knowing that after living togther for 4 yrs they can just move on like that. It's a biatch but there is nothing we can do about it. Keep strong Blind Rage Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Our would-be anniversary will be 22nd. I know how you guys feel. Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 Coming up to a year since I first met my ex and it's directly opposite where I now work (life loves throwing it's little curve balls). I know when that date comes I'll want to be anywhere but there. I do know that even these reminders fail within time though. I've had long term relationships in the past and I can't even recall any dates anymore. Not even birthdays. Like everything, you move on and forget. Things get better. Link to post Share on other sites
Fufu Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 Whoa, i just look at the date, tomorrow if I was still with my ex.. it would be 3 years 4 months anniversary. BUT HECK. I'm single and happy now. Ajax: Yours previously was 22, for mine, he broke up with me on 22, it's a day I kinda dragged. Link to post Share on other sites
fresh8 Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 Today (it's midnight atm) right now would have been our 12 month anniversary. I was spending the night with a girl friend of mine who told me she actually thought me and my ex would last a long time. A male friend told me also that he thought I changed a lot after dating this girl - I got more mature and serious. I miss my ex a lot but as each day passes, I am learning to live without her. I'm coming up to 4 weeks NC and about 6-7 weeks since the breakup. I am healing slowly but surely. I thought I would be a wreck when today came but I am happy that it is not bearing on my mind as I thought it would! Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlindRage Posted April 15, 2011 Author Share Posted April 15, 2011 I had a dream in which I was flirting with a new girl. I'm glad it wasn't one with my ex intruding it . Right when I woke up, I remembered what day it was and felt sad for at least 10 second but now I'm feeling more.... neutral? Which is great! It sure beats watery eyes. I hope I forget about the special days with time. Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 Yeah... me and exH started dating on the 28th of this month. I don't think it will hold much significance for me though. It would have been 5 years of us being together. It will fall on a Thursday this year, I don't think I will attribute much significance to the day maybe just go biking if I feel emo. A lot has happened in those 5 years. Last year I was kind of planning on going back to the first nice restaurant we ever ate at, which is like 250 miles away from where I live But oh well he couldn't stick it out through the rough times so he doesn't get to enjoy the good times. That's life and thats how it is. I can sleep easier knowing he's only going to ruin future relationships the same way. Link to post Share on other sites
fresh8 Posted April 17, 2011 Share Posted April 17, 2011 Yesterday would have been 12 months and I was at a music festival all day. Didn't miss her till the evening. And I missed her a lil bit today. I guess feelings and emotions of wishing she was still with me and also not knowing if she was feeling the same as me made me feel pretty down. On the brightside, it's been 28 days NC and 7 weeks since the breakup... Link to post Share on other sites
Infomercials Posted April 18, 2011 Share Posted April 18, 2011 Well, for me it would have been 4 years on April 28th. A few days before he left, he'd actually taken that day and the 29th off of work so we could spend some extra time together. I'm guessing he still has those days off...he'll probably miss me and call, but he's made it pretty clear he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, and I don't think 10 more days will change that. That will definitely be like the hardest day not to pick up the phone. Link to post Share on other sites
sabienne Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 My anniversary with the ex is coming up too. Can I ask what you guys did to get your mind off it on the day? I don't have a new bf just quite yet to keep my mind occupied! We only broke up a month ago! It's a day I'm really not looking forward to and any advice on how to keep myself sane (and stay AWAY from the phone) would be appreciated!! Link to post Share on other sites
collegeguy_24 Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 My anniversary with the ex is coming up too. Can I ask what you guys did to get your mind off it on the day? I don't have a new bf just quite yet to keep my mind occupied! We only broke up a month ago! I had work that day, so it helps. Other then that, I started drinking and got hammered, went to work the next day with a hangover. Not the best advice, but it worked for me. I think though I am in danger of becoming an alcoholic so I am quitting for a bit. You might want to try movies, video games, something of that sort. Link to post Share on other sites
sabienne Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 I've actually got the day, and the following day, off work, so I could turn to alcoholism! Unfortunately, I've always had a bit of a thing for drunk dialing. So maybe not... Video games sounds good. I'm worried movies, I'll sit there and try and get involved but I'll get distracted and just think about him anyway. Video games at least I have to focus. I've heard good things about red dead redemption and at least then I can shoot things and get my anger out! Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 On the day these reminders come I would suggest making some big plans with friends or family. Go out and do something you haven't done in a while that will take up the whole day and leave you feeling great. It could be anything (not drinking though, that just brings up emotions), but something different from what you did with your ex. You want to start linking that day to a different memory, and experiencing something special will help with that. Link to post Share on other sites
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