2011 Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Hi Yeah I know no one said it would be easy but I have went through a bad break up over xmas/NY and up till recently have not been too keen on dating. Have been feeling better recently so I ended up talking to this new girl on line and although she is nice and we seem to get along, we have met up and had a drink and that, I still have my guard up quite ferociously and well I do not want it to come across to her as I am not interested or appear kind of reserved but, on the other hand, I feel like I am not sure how to ramp up the attraction/closeness a bit as I have been holding off being too close and I feel like she might be thinking I do not appear that interested although I am. We had been texting/emailing for the last few weeks every night and it kind of fizzled out recently, we were talking like friends and that made me kind of weary, don't want it to end up as just good friends. Don't want to appear rude but then don't want to appear needy either and end up with nothing to say. We have only met once and that is because of circumstances, work etc but we are due to go out soon and she seems still keen as am I. Just kind of unsure how to play it from here and would appreciate any advice on how to proceed from here. She had went through a BU too a good while ago and when we were out we were talking about exs she came across quite bitter and hurt for a wee minute but then think she realised what she was saying and stopped. Maybe she is in the same boat as me. 2011 Link to post Share on other sites
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