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bElliottlove

[color=darkblue][/color] I have currently started seeing my ex boyfriend again who lives 8 hours away in cincy, ohio. Im going to be moving to columbus for a job this september so thats why we have cont. this relationship. However we see eachother every 3-5 weeks for a couple of days but that leaves all those days in between without the physical affection and love and conversation. My boyfriend has claimed he loves me and is committed to me but never really wants to talk to me on the phone for that long . We recent;ly have been fighting a lot but instead of talking about it and working it out all he does is scream and hang up on me and say hurtfull things. Basicly i feel un-loved and abandonded . what can i do to make him see he needs to commit or hit the road?

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hurtingandconfused
what can i do to make him see he needs to commit or hit the road?

 

More of this:

talking about it and working it out

 

Less of this: fighting...screaming and hanging up and saying hurtfull things.

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Believe me, I completely understand. My boyfriend and I live 8+ hours away from each other and only get to see ach other once every other month. He is the WORST phone talker in the world! I love him to death and things are always wonderful when we are together, but these sagging conversations are kicking my a@@! Turns out he has never been very good about it. It makes things difficult, but I just try to remember all of the really great conversations that we have whenever we are face to face. Hope it helps!

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