ludachris Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 So today the doorbell rang and i expected my mom to get it because she was close to the door but it just kept on ringing. The top and bottom locks were locked and when we lock the top lock someone has to open the door because no one in our family has a key to the top lock. Well since it kept on ringing i get up and walk towards the door and just see my mom sitting there watching tv like she didnt even hear the doorbell. I open the door and it was my dad. I go back to my room and i hear them starting to yell at each other. My mom says that she saw a text that my dads friend sent him that said "i have two beautiful girls here one for me and one for you." and they start yelling about that and my dad comes right back and says that he saw my mom flirting with a guy while they were in vegas. Also my dad starts yelling at my mom because for the past couple of weeks my mom has been going out and drinking with her girlfriends til 1am. Hearing their arguments about all this flirting made me really sad and im not gonna lie i cried. I have no idea what to do i want them to be happy with each other i would hate it if they divorced. I want to talk to them about it but i never talk to my parents about personal things like this. Our family isnt very open about a lot of things we keep a lot of stuff to ourselves. I have no idea what to do..... My parents are 50 years old but they act really childish when it comes to their marriage and relationship...sometimes i feel like they are my age the way they act. I'm 21. Also they dont even sleep in the same bed anymore and they havent slept in the same bed since i can remember. And they argue all of the time. It sucks. I cant wait to move out which will be at the end of the summer because i am transferring to a university in a different city, but i feel like once i move out their arguments will get worse. I feel like they are holding back because i still live with them. is anyone going through or gone through something like this? Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted April 17, 2011 Share Posted April 17, 2011 Ludachris, theres nothing you can do. All you can do is sit back and be a spectator. You just have to understand that after a while, a couple stops paying attention to each other, they build resentment, then they emotionally disconnect from each other. Right now they cant stand the sight of each other. They are not happy. They most likely will divorce, if they have choices. Theres nothing you can do, but their divorce isnt the worst thing in the world. It also has nothing to do with you Bottom line is, they are still alive, so appreciate them while they are alive. Alot of people dont have their parents around to talk to and hang out with. Those people would be quite happy to talk to their parents even if they were divorced. So dont think that they shouldnt get divorced just because YOU dont want them to be. You dont want them to be miserable do you? Let them work out their problems, and if they get divorced, expect it, and make it easy on them. You will see that their divorce isnt that big a deal as long as they are alive and happy. Link to post Share on other sites
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