TotallyConfused Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 I know this isnt quite about second chances but I enjoy ya'll adivice so can u work this one in I need much help thanks I have a situation Involving My ex, Best friend and my ex's brother. Well I met my ex and we had dated for awhile but things went shady and we agreed to be friends ... still saying we loved each other. during this time my bestfriend met his brother and we'd all go out together. They ended up breaking it off also not to much longer after my ex and I After the break up everyone still stayed friends. I was heartbroken over my ex and his brother was over my bestfriend so him and I would talk a lot. we got pretty close and we could tell each other everything, but just the other day he starts asking me questions like did I think he was good enough .... and would I date him and etc. He even ended up telling me him liked me. I sorta feel the same but I'm still not completely over his brother and even though my best friend was the one to break off their realtionship I still feel dating him would be wrong to do to her. Also would it look low considering that is my ex's brother?? I need help to know wheather I should let everyone in the sitution know how I feel and try to progress with my ex's brother or just let things be and continue only being his friend. If theres anything else needed to know to better understand my story please feel free to ask!!!! thank bucnhes Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 There are way too many guys out there to date, even to be friends with, that you don't have to get into a situation that is going to cause emotional turmoil and chaos in a family and with your girlfriend. Just be friends with this guy, if you can. Stop spending so much time with him and cease sharing so much personal information now that you know how he feels. Frankly, I think your ex's brother is a real bastard for making a play for you considering you had dated his brother. It just stinks and it's a good indication of what kind of morals, ethics and principles he has. Good thing you found out now. Good luck in finding a really nice guy for yourself who has no relationship with or is not known to any of your exes and who has not dated any of your girlfriends. Better to leave the soap operas to television. Link to post Share on other sites
ambiegirl Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 well i can say that u should probably talk to your friend first and see what she says and how would she feel if you went out with her ex and if she doesnt seem to be comftorable with it or seems weird about it then i wouldnt but if she seems ok with it then i would say all systems are go! Link to post Share on other sites
TotallyConfused Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 Well I tried to talk to my friend and she flipped out .. all I said was I sorta have more than friend feelling for your ex and what would u think if I "talked" to him and she flipped saying friends wouldnt do that to friends and that she never wants to talk to me again . what do I do .... I would never want to ruin my friendship over a male and now it seem liek I have ... I'll I was trying to do is be honest and now I dont have my best friend. I feel lost Link to post Share on other sites
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