pierricka Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 hello, I met that guy m thought he was so different from others, made love to him for the first time in my life, then one day after an argument i went to his place find another that he was dating at the same time than me, i forgive him, even if it hurted me so bad that i have lost more than 30lbs, he was my first i am 22 years old an honest girl, a really beautiful, i do not believe that now, i think i am ****, i forgave him, went back to him, an one day he beat me cause i was talking to another guy on the phone, i could not tell my mum and dad when they ask me about the bruises, i lied . and then he went back to his girlfriend, he was dating her before me, he said that he loved both of us, that i should wait for him to make up his mind, i could not do that to myself and decide to leave him, i felt so strong at that point, even if i was crying myself to sleep, could not eat , could not sleep, was losing more weight. he kept calling me , he left me a message last week saying that i am a whore, trash, a bitch, that the mistake that he made in his life was meeting me, i know he is doing that cause i always tried to prove him wrong, i am so hurt , he cheated, lied, abused me, i forgave him, but why he is gonna called me a bitch when he knows he is my first when i was with him he did not understand why a beautiful girl like was preserving herself, i have pray god to forgave him, so i could move on with my life, i met someone i like him, but i cannot forget those words that he said, every guy that you are going to meet will only **** u and live Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 Your ex was a jerk. There are lots of men out there who are not jerks. Your mistake was to forgive his infidelity. That should have been your cue to leave. Never let anybody do that to you again. There are some things you should not forgive. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 It's clear to me that this guy was not right in the head. Perhaps he had a bad experience with his father and was beaten. No excuse, he mistreated you and there is nothing that can make it up. However, ALL men are different. There is always something unique about everyone. every guy that you are going to meet will only **** u and live I'm sorry but he's totally wrong. You will meet that one guy that you are going to desire to be with. He will treat you right and he will not lie to you. Don't let this ex discourage your future. And remember keep your head up. Link to post Share on other sites
dario Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 You are beautiful. Embrace this world and the good that it can offer. And when you happen upon a man who gives you pure devotion...listen and build together. You are deserving of all the warmth in the world. Don't become accustomed to melancholy....or pain. And don't let it become the catalyst for decisions down the way. Painful experiences will make you hesitant and wary...but you will find him. A man who will offer love. He might overwhelm you with affection....and you may be intoxicated by the reality of his good nature and question its strength.... I understand and I feel for you on this one. You are not a bitch, you are not a whore, you are not trash. I'm sorry if I'm not making much sense.... Link to post Share on other sites
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