DreamerGirl27 Posted April 18, 2011 Share Posted April 18, 2011 I can't get a guy I care about to care about me. Getting guys to screw you and leave is easy. Getting a guy to commit to a serious relationship, is like prying your way into their heart with the jaws of life. Not a pretty picture, but I couldn't think of a better way to word it. Silly boys. Why are you so afraid of love? Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted April 18, 2011 Share Posted April 18, 2011 Guys know right away when they look at you if you are loving potential for them. When they have choices, they got for their first choice. Youre just drawing the short straws. Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted April 18, 2011 Share Posted April 18, 2011 Getting a guy to commit to a serious relationship, is like prying your way into their heart with the jaws of life. Getting a woman to commit to a serious relationship is like using a blowtorch to cut into a gasoline tank. Just when you think you've got it... blooey!!! Silly boys. Why are you so afraid of love? Nonononono. Why are you women so afraid of love? Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 19, 2011 Author Share Posted April 19, 2011 Getting a woman to commit to a serious relationship is like using a blowtorch to cut into a gasoline tank. Just when you think you've got it... blooey!!! Nonononono. Why are you women so afraid of love? maybe the girls you're going after aren't interested? maybe they just want to be friends... then again, I don't become friends with guys I have no interest in. I just don't. I have a strict policy that guys and girls cannot be friends and I'm a girl saying this. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 I'm not afraid of love. I don't bleep women and just con them. That's not right. Sometimes I wish I weren't so upstanding. But I am. Link to post Share on other sites
Green_eyes Posted April 22, 2011 Share Posted April 22, 2011 I have a strict policy that guys and girls cannot be friends and I'm a girl saying this. That's actually very interesting - I'm a guy who actually has more female friends than I do male friends. However, finding someone who wants more than friendship is next to impossible. I'm certainly not afraid of love - I was with the same person for thirteen years, and was married to her for eight of them. I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with her. It's funny how the world works - sometimes I think it's a miracle the human race has survived as long as it has Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted April 22, 2011 Share Posted April 22, 2011 "Correction: I can get guys to bleep me." Well duh! Link to post Share on other sites
Eatpraylove48 Posted April 22, 2011 Share Posted April 22, 2011 I'm not afraid of love. I don't bleep women and just con them. That's not right. Sometimes I wish I weren't so upstanding. But I am. Nothing wrong with that. Kudos. Very hard to find guys like you. Link to post Share on other sites
orangelady Posted April 22, 2011 Share Posted April 22, 2011 first of all, it may have to do with the age of the guys you are dating with. Most guys will only want to settle down in their 30s. Also a guy already has a picture of who he wants to marry, what kind of girl should he marry in his head. I hardly come across a guy who "didn't know what he want". Until the guy marries, he will fool around and just be "friends" with all his female companions and maybe you're just that to them right now? On a dating site, one guy actually confessed to me that he has commitment issues (and yeah, he didn't put that down on his profile) but he said he got engaged to a girl but broke it off and the girl was very hurt. He said there was nothing wrong with the girl but he was just too scared. There's a huge red flag there. If I were you, I would stay away from guys whom you know are not marriage material. Why waste time? Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 24, 2011 Author Share Posted April 24, 2011 first of all, it may have to do with the age of the guys you are dating with. Most guys will only want to settle down in their 30s. Also a guy already has a picture of who he wants to marry, what kind of girl should he marry in his head. I hardly come across a guy who "didn't know what he want". Until the guy marries, he will fool around and just be "friends" with all his female companions and maybe you're just that to them right now? On a dating site, one guy actually confessed to me that he has commitment issues (and yeah, he didn't put that down on his profile) but he said he got engaged to a girl but broke it off and the girl was very hurt. He said there was nothing wrong with the girl but he was just too scared. There's a huge red flag there. If I were you, I would stay away from guys whom you know are not marriage material. Why waste time? At 26, every guy is a waste of time. They don't grow up until waaaayyyy too late in my books. Link to post Share on other sites
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 At 26, every guy is a waste of time. They don't grow up until waaaayyyy too late in my books. Not necessarily. I know some very steady-headed men in their early twenties. It all depends on their value system, imo. Same goes for girls. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 It's GIGS. You should check out the statistics and the population of male to female ratio. Typically men know they have the pick of the lot if women outnumber men. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 GIGS? Noun1.gig - long and light rowing boat; especially for racingsmall boat - a boat that is small 2.gig - an implement with a shaft and barbed point used for catching fishfishgig, fizgig, lance, spear fishing gear, fishing rig, fishing tackle, tackle, rig - gear used in fishing harpoon - a spear with a shaft and barbed point for throwing; used for catching large fish or whales; a strong line is attached to it implement - instrumentation (a piece of equipment or tool) used to effect an end leister - a spear with three or more prongs; used for spearing fish (especially salmon) 3.gig - a cluster of hooks (without barbs) that is drawn through a school of fish to hook their bodies; used when fish are not bitingfishing gear, fishing rig, fishing tackle, tackle, rig - gear used in fishing hook - a curved or bent implement for suspending or pulling something 4.gig - tender that is a light ship's boat; often for personal use of captainpinnace, ship's boat, cutter, tender - a boat for communication between ship and shore 5.gig - small two-wheeled horse-drawn carriage; with two seats and no hoodcarriage, equipage, rig - a vehicle with wheels drawn by one or more horses 6.gig - a booking for musicians; "they played a gig in New Jersey"booking, engagement - employment for performers or performing groups that lasts for a limited period of time; "the play had bookings throughout the summer" Dreamer, have you considered trying out girls? I actually know several girls who got tired of guys an went bi for a while. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 GIGS? Noun1.gig - long and light rowing boat; especially for racingsmall boat - a boat that is small 2.gig - an implement with a shaft and barbed point used for catching fishfishgig, fizgig, lance, spear fishing gear, fishing rig, fishing tackle, tackle, rig - gear used in fishing harpoon - a spear with a shaft and barbed point for throwing; used for catching large fish or whales; a strong line is attached to it implement - instrumentation (a piece of equipment or tool) used to effect an end leister - a spear with three or more prongs; used for spearing fish (especially salmon) 3.gig - a cluster of hooks (without barbs) that is drawn through a school of fish to hook their bodies; used when fish are not bitingfishing gear, fishing rig, fishing tackle, tackle, rig - gear used in fishing hook - a curved or bent implement for suspending or pulling something 4.gig - tender that is a light ship's boat; often for personal use of captainpinnace, ship's boat, cutter, tender - a boat for communication between ship and shore 5.gig - small two-wheeled horse-drawn carriage; with two seats and no hoodcarriage, equipage, rig - a vehicle with wheels drawn by one or more horses 6.gig - a booking for musicians; "they played a gig in New Jersey"booking, engagement - employment for performers or performing groups that lasts for a limited period of time; "the play had bookings throughout the summer" Dreamer, have you considered trying out girls? I actually know several girls who got tired of guys an went bi for a while. Capitalized- GIGS: Grass Is Greener Syndrome. It's not just restricted to relationships, GIGS is common among singles in their early twenties to late thirties. Link to post Share on other sites
TheLoneSock Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 maybe the girls you're going after aren't interested? maybe they just want to be friends... Does this answer your (own) question, Dreamer? Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 Capitalized- GIGS: Grass Is Greener Syndrome. It's not just restricted to relationships, GIGS is common among singles in their early twenties to late thirties. Oh, guess it's not widely used if I couldn't find it on Google. Link to post Share on other sites
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 Dreamer, have you considered trying out girls? I actually know several girls who got tired of guys an went bi for a while. :lmao: :lmao::lmao::lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao::lmao::lmao: :lmao: Edit: Tried spelling out WIN. But LS wouldn't let me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 24, 2011 Author Share Posted April 24, 2011 Does this answer your (own) question, Dreamer? then again, I don't become friends with guys I have no interest in. I just don't. I have a strict policy that guys and girls cannot be friends and I'm a girl saying this. does this answer yours? Link to post Share on other sites
Limin Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 I can't get a guy I care about to care about me. Getting guys to screw you and leave is easy. Getting a guy to commit to a serious relationship, is like prying your way into their heart with the jaws of life. Not a pretty picture, but I couldn't think of a better way to word it. Silly boys. Why are you so afraid of love? Most girls these days are opposite of you, which is a bad thing. Link to post Share on other sites
washguy74 Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 If you want to be loved, be lovable. And always make the guy work for sex. The effort he puts in going for it, will subconsciously reinforce that he likes you. Eventually, if he likes you, and is getting some, that's a foundation for him sticking around, falling in love. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 27, 2011 Author Share Posted April 27, 2011 If you want to be loved, be lovable. And always make the guy work for sex. The effort he puts in going for it, will subconsciously reinforce that he likes you. Eventually, if he likes you, and is getting some, that's a foundation for him sticking around, falling in love. No, no, no! We do not use our "lady parts" to keep a guy. You're right, I will make the guy work for sex. meaning, there will be a rock on my finger before we have sex. I don't care if it's a rock out of a cracker jack box, just as long as he signs the papers that say he's not leaving me before we do the deed. I'm a Christian. Sue me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 27, 2011 Author Share Posted April 27, 2011 No, no, no! We do not use our "lady parts" to keep a guy. You're right, I will make the guy work for sex. meaning, there will be a rock on my finger before we have sex. I don't care if it's a rock out of a cracker jack box, just as long as he signs the papers that say he's not leaving me before we do the deed. I'm a Christian. Sue me. correction: Before AND after. You don't get to test drive this model. Link to post Share on other sites
Floridaman Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 Originally Posted by DreamerGirl27 No, no, no! We do not use our "lady parts" to keep a guy. You're right, I will make the guy work for sex. meaning, there will be a rock on my finger before we have sex. I don't care if it's a rock out of a cracker jack box, just as long as he signs the papers that say he's not leaving me before we do the deed. I'm a Christian. Sue me. correction: Before AND after. You don't get to test drive this model. That sounds fine. I have no problem with that stance, and used to follow it myself.... Link to post Share on other sites
linwood Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 Honestly I don`t see what`s so wrong with spending your twenties having fun and dating whoever you like. I`ve never met any twenty-something male or female who was mature enough for marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 28, 2011 Author Share Posted April 28, 2011 Honestly I don`t see what`s so wrong with spending your twenties having fun and dating whoever you like. I`ve never met any twenty-something male or female who was mature enough for marriage. One word, two syllables. HANSON Link to post Share on other sites
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