can i still be with her..

[uncle daff]

hi i have been together with my ex girlfriends for 2 month. she ask me for break up on the second month

 

annivesary.. ok the storey goes like this.. she always tell me tht she always love me and will not leave me

 

and she love the way i treat her..bcoz i have not scold her if also her mistake i will not scold her coz to me

 

its just a small issue.. we broke up coz she told me that im to nice to her.. and sometimes i dont understand her..

 

how can she even understand me if she dont allow me to talk sometimes.. ok then yesterday i did talk to her.. i

 

show her the real man of me..i did voice out all those thing and and i doing it in anger.. after 15 min ending tht call i

 

decided to sms her and to tell her tht im sorry to show her my nasty part of me.before i could sent her tht sms..

 

she sent me a sms so i delete those sweet msg and read her first and she told me tht she is sorry she love me

 

alot and she wanted to cry wh nshe look into my eyes but she control.. thn i reply hei im abt to ask for forgiveness

 

too but you sms as the same times i wanted to send it to you.. and after 20 minutes i call her and told her hei even

 

we have break up we jus sms each other like the way we use to be in the first month being together..and i told

 

her abt my nasty side of me..and im sorry if im too harsh jus now to her..thn while talkin to her nicelly out of

 

suddent she say miss ya..thn i ask her u miss me as a what..she wanted to say something but she change it as a

 

fren,means she miss me as a fren..thn i jus keep talkin to her and this is her first time allow me to speak out

 

those stuff i wanted to..and at the end of the call i told her its been a long times since im with u i have not mention

 

this when you are about to go to sleep..so i told her nicelly and sweetly "ok good nite to you sleep tight and

 

sweet dreams and before you sleep look up at the ceiling and think but before you close your eyes give a smile to

 

the ceiling and the next morning gonna be a fresh new day for you" she reply love you,and i say huh!! can u

 

repeat it she say love you again.. so i told her can i have a good night kiss from her..and she give it to me.. thn i

 

pretend and say bye bye and she immidiately say she is not sleepy.. coz she want me to be by her side..then i

 

recall and told that i forgotten to give her a kiss..so i told her do you need a kiss.. then she reply "you dont want to

 

give me the kiss" so i did give her a kiss.. but jus now in the morning i woke up i heard her voice..but i look around

 

she is not there. so i give her a call she say she is changing and about to go to work.. so when she was in the

 

public transport she call me. and i told her so can i have a lunch with her. she say anything..thn she say do u prefer

 

meeting me at night after her work.thn i say i meet you at night then we can see each other abit longer time coz if

 

lunch i can onli meet her for abt 45 minutes so i prefer to meet her at night.. then she ask me are you sending me

 

home. i reply if you want to i will..and she want me to sent her home..and i told her i meet her later at night and

 

i even ask her if she want me to fatch her infront of her office she say yes meeet me outside her office. and we end

 

the call..

 

p.s do you think i still have the changes to be with her back..coz i really cant forget her and we spent most of our

 

time together..pls reply me asap and later at night when meet her should i hold her and or jus wait for her fist

 

move?

[DerangedAngel]

we broke up coz she told me that im to nice to her

 

That's a pretty sucky reason to break up with someone, don't you think?

 

i did voice out all those thing and and i doing it in anger..

 

What exactly did you voice out? That you didn't understand her sometimes? And never got to do any of the talking?

 

decided to sms her and to tell her tht im sorry to show her my nasty part of me

 

I don't think you showed her a nasty part of anything. Every couple has fights, I doubt you were being unreasonable by expressing things that had upset you.

 

p.s do you think i still have the changes to be with her back..coz i really cant forget her and we spent most of our time together...

 

Yes, I think you have a chance to get back with her. It sounds like you just had a little fight. The only thing I would be concerned with would be her reason for breaking it off with you. I'd ask her what she meant when she said you were "too nice". Let us know how everything went.

 

-Deranged

 

(P.S. Hope this was somewhat helpful, maybe you could repost for clarity? I had a hard time with this one.)

[Heartfelt]

Originally posted by DerangedAngel (P.S. Hope this was somewhat helpful, maybe you could repost for clarity? I had a hard time with this one.)

 

I had to stop about half way through. (Just messing with ya Daff, please don't be offended)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you're really that in love after 2 months Daff, then make sure she knows, but stop chasing her if she wants to move on. Get busy with the rest of your life. She's giving you the "nice guy" excuse. I've had friends who have been told that and I don't even know what to think of it. My guess is it's a way of letting you know she likes you as a friend more than a companion.