Gifts from Studmuffin

[White Flower]

Daisy Im sorry you have had such a difficult time of it on here. You will find that if you celebrate your happiness on this forum because it is a public mixed forum people who are not happy about affairs may not be happy for you and in some instances use it to make fun of you here and elsewhere on the internet. Be very careful about how much information you give out.

 

If you want to go NC or end your affair, this is the place to be. If you want to celebrate your happiness be ready for what you saw on this thread.

 

Im glad you are enjoying the locket.

Great post jj.

 

Daisy, I was sad to see your thread pounced on right away. You are just expressing your joy, but it seems that many want to see that you are bragging which clearly you aren't.

 

And I find it interesting that M people are allowed to celebrate, brag, or express their joy but OP are not. Weird, cause I thought this was a forum to support the OP. Oh well.

 

Further, it appears that when an OW expresses their joy, the BW feels the need to compete with that joy. Why would they TRY SO HARD to prove how happy they are? I thought happy people were just happy, but it appears that outdoing your happiness is the order of the day. The competition factor speaks volumes. I guess they're just not that happy after all.

 

And what is wrong with lockets??? The only thing I asked for Christmas this year was a locket and my kids spent all their hard-earned money on one for me. It is the most valuable gift and very dear to my heart.

[Lucky_One]

For the record, I am an XOW. I am currently married to my second H.

 

And yes, I posted a snarky response.

 

1) I don't like Daisy's attitude towards hurting other people, her sneering at her MM's wife's pain, and her presumption that the nasty horrible BS is simply not woman enough to be able to hold onto her man. I don't like the attitude, I don't like the poster, and that is my right. (And she is welcome to dislike me in return.)

 

2) I really, really despise men who hide marital assets. And if he is going to the trouble of hiding assets, then he knows that legally those assets are partially his wife's. Any person, male or female, who would steal from their partner is, to be blunt, a class A butthole. And anyone who applauds such behavior is, to be blunt, a class A butthole who is screwing a class A butthole.

 

3) Lockets are pretty grandmotherly, and don't impress me.

 

4) If Mr Class A Butthole has so much freaking money that he has to hide it from his wife before he is able to divorce, then he should be spending a decent amount of his purloined cash on his mistress, rather than cheaping out on a locket.

 

All JMHO, of course.

[jj33]

Lucky One. Where did that come from? Who said anything about hiding marital assets or a horrible BS? All she said was he gave her a locket?

[Rose1977]

Great post jj.

 

Daisy, I was sad to see your thread pounced on right away. You are just expressing your joy, but it seems that many want to see that you are bragging which clearly you aren't.

 

And I find it interesting that M people are allowed to celebrate, brag, or express their joy but OP are not. Weird, cause I thought this was a forum to support the OP. Oh well.

 

Further, it appears that when an OW expresses their joy, the BW feels the need to compete with that joy. Why would they TRY SO HARD to prove how happy they are? I thought happy people were just happy, but it appears that outdoing your happiness is the order of the day. The competition factor speaks volumes. I guess they're just not that happy after all.

 

And what is wrong with lockets??? The only thing I asked for Christmas this year was a locket and my kids spent all their hard-earned money on one for me. It is the most valuable gift and very dear to my heart.

 

 

I didn't see anyone here bragging about anything, and this just makes no sense to me. You state immediately that OP was not bragging, but that the BS's/M people here are bragging and trying so hard to prove happiness... This competition factor just make no sense to me. Who cares whether I am a BS or an OW? Daisy was happy she received jewelry, I was happy I received jewelry... If I'm understanding you correctly, you feel it is okay for her to express her joy but if I do the same, I am trying too hard to prove my happiness? This rationale is just strange to me and if I am misunderstanding you please correct me.

[Tony]

Too many nasty, mean posts that have ABSOLUTELY, TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY NOTHING WHATSOEVER TO DO WITH THE ORIGINAL POST. It's just so hard to believe educated people can do this kind of thing.