Draco81 Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 Its been a while since I last wrote, and when I got your replies I felt good and did move on. But I guess the past does haunt you some times. I ran into my ex Girlfriend a week ago as i was driving i saw her on the street she saw me and when i saw her i kept going was thinking if i should go back or not, i did parked my car and started walking towards her I called her name and we started talking.... I felt like I got my closure but, she made it seem like it was my fault. I hadn't seen her for 3 month...... MY FAULT just because, I tried to love her and take care of her as much as i was able to.. I was ready she wasn't...This is where I ****ed up..about five days later i was out with some friends we ended up in a bar around the area were she lives, I decided to pass by her old neighborhood just to reminisce about our old good times.. I guess she saw me and called me the next day telling me all kinds of **** that i was invading her privacy its not like i went up to her house and knocked I PASSED BY, but it was wrong in my part. We started arguing she told me to **** off and hung up. I called her back and told her I was sorry and that i ****ed up and hung up.. This wasn't the way I wanted things to end..I guess I did lose myself into her spell of lust, I fell for her and lost myself to her. What can I do now she hates me this wasn't what i wanted...any ideas what i should do.......... I can say that desire has no safety, she leads you on a road gone crazy.... Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 Do nothing. Stay far away and leave her alone. Anything else, no matter how well-intentioned, will just bug her more. It's unfortunate, but you should have stayed away in the first place. Don't compound your error by doing anything else. Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 Ouch! I agree to staying far away from her, do nothing and say nothing. I can understand that you didn't knock on her door, but you did walk close enough to her house that she saw you (however and for whatever reason) and to her that is enough for a trial and to hang you. It seems to be over, move on~ best wishes for ya Link to post Share on other sites
calithin83 Posted April 8, 2004 Share Posted April 8, 2004 why is she being so mean??? i say u stop thinking about her as the nice and wonderful person...u shouldve proabbly not even drove back to talk to her, she doesnt deserve it..just ignore her, try to forget, have fun with friends, u will find someone else...but stay far away from her.... Link to post Share on other sites
silk_sword Posted April 8, 2004 Share Posted April 8, 2004 it's very peculiar that she jumped down your back for passing by. it's also strange she took such notice to it. most individuals would've let it go, especially considering it had been three months since u two last made contact. she probably has some serious issues (mentally). it's definately a good idea to stay away. it didn't work out between the both of u. that is neither your fault or hers. things happen. maybe she has a lot of emotional things to confront at this current time and is not ready for relationships. also, not being her, it's unfair to accuse her of intentially leading u. u control yourself and no one on this forum, nor u, truly know or understand her mind and her purposes/reasons. the best thing is to concentrate on solely yourself. be selfish and do things to make only yourself happy for awhile. u have to heal and only u can do that. good luck. u will acquire all that u need and desire! never doubt that! never doubt that u can give yourself that! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Draco81 Posted April 8, 2004 Author Share Posted April 8, 2004 Thanks silk and everyone else who wrote back I'm feeling better and do have to move on, but sometimes catch myself stargazing about her...I look up and wish for her to come back once more as she did look for me when we first met.... Damn Pain is Love...... But I'll stay away Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted April 8, 2004 Share Posted April 8, 2004 But I'll stay away You have no choice. You do not want a restraining order filed on you. Then she will really mess up your life. Play it safe and do not contact her again even if you see her again. Link to post Share on other sites
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