kgal Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 I wonder if it's just all the stress.. that's been causing my head to hurt ... ugh. I'm thinking of my ex.. and although the memories are slowly fading.. I'm not crying so much anymore .. I still feel stressed from this breakup. I talked to him on messenger the other night... and I acted kind of distant... and then he started acting a bit more open when I did that. I think right now... I should just focus on me more... I really have been neglecting MY life.. and I feel I made him more than I should've... cuz I see how it's affected me so much. I mean... I know things are going to get alot better for me... but it's the waiting period.. and all the extra time I get to think of him... I mean... please go away headache! LOL! I haven't seen my ex .. and this has bugged me.. because it's like he's there on the pc.. but I can't see him..or hear him.. and that drives me crazy! I hate it. I asked him if we could see one another as friends.. and its been like 2.5 months.. so I think its fair enough to ask for that much... and he's like, "Hmm.. no I dont think I'm ready." So.. I guess it's time to just flunk this sucker.. haha... I dont know... I love him... I do... but I can't keep being sad... I hate it.. I hate the way I feel .. and I'm really just going to try my best to move on.. really. Who knows.. maybe he wont like the silent treatment and then he'll start thinking things through more... ugh... I do feel in that limbotic state right now.. and I just pray this headache fades.. along w/the stress.. its no fun. Link to post Share on other sites
waterbaloon Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 well right now your in a tuff spot. i know how you fell. its been over a year since my last break up, and though im over her and i dont feel pain anymore. i'll still think of her. i think that is the way for a lot of people (though thet wont admit it). the headakes could be two things: one it could be form lack of sleep, two you may be stressing too moch. now im no doctor im just telling you from personal experence. it cuold even be how you broke up. what you need to do is go out, do what you like to do, meet new people. You know as well as I do that God does not put us through something that we cannot handle. i'll pray for you and hope the tou will get better soon. God Bless. Link to post Share on other sites
sinkerswim Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 I think its alot of stress that can cause the headaches.. I know I get them from time to time going through my situation...I noticed I get them when I think sooo much of him during the day...it actually makes my head hurt!!! I just hope you feel better soon. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kgal Posted April 7, 2004 Author Share Posted April 7, 2004 Originally posted by waterbaloon well right now your in a tuff spot. i know how you fell. its been over a year since my last break up, and though im over her and i dont feel pain anymore. i'll still think of her. i think that is the way for a lot of people (though thet wont admit it). the headakes could be two things: one it could be form lack of sleep, two you may be stressing too moch. now im no doctor im just telling you from personal experence. it cuold even be how you broke up. what you need to do is go out, do what you like to do, meet new people. You know as well as I do that God does not put us through something that we cannot handle. i'll pray for you and hope the tou will get better soon. God Bless. Thankyou so much! Link to post Share on other sites
Author kgal Posted April 7, 2004 Author Share Posted April 7, 2004 Originally posted by sinkerswim I think its alot of stress that can cause the headaches.. I know I get them from time to time going through my situation...I noticed I get them when I think sooo much of him during the day...it actually makes my head hurt!!! I just hope you feel better soon. I do too.. lol... sorry your head's hurt... I guess trying NOT to think of them will do the trick. Link to post Share on other sites
MarKus Posted April 7, 2004 Share Posted April 7, 2004 hi kgal i know its not fun...and i know how ur feeling Im in a exact situation as you are....but me and her are on a break of 3 months after being together 3 years....the pain is getting less...even though i still think of her everysingle day.....and i do still love her....we have never had a no contact thing....i know if i text her she would respond I havnt contacted her for a 1 month....and she has tryed to get in contact with me via text a couple times....i have ignored them....but its so hard to do it.....she sent one last week saying "Hello, U ok? U been up to much? text back x" I wanna text back so bad ....but another is saying dont do it....i would just reply something simple. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kgal Posted April 8, 2004 Author Share Posted April 8, 2004 Originally posted by MarKus hi kgal i know its not fun...and i know how ur feeling Im in a exact situation as you are....but me and her are on a break of 3 months after being together 3 years....the pain is getting less...even though i still think of her everysingle day.....and i do still love her....we have never had a no contact thing....i know if i text her she would respond I havnt contacted her for a 1 month....and she has tryed to get in contact with me via text a couple times....i have ignored them....but its so hard to do it.....she sent one last week saying "Hello, U ok? U been up to much? text back x" I wanna text back so bad ....but another is saying dont do it....i would just reply something simple. Yea... it is hard I guess to ignore those emails. I'm pretty weak and I'll email my ex alot more than he emails me. Sometimes I get mad cuz he does ignore my emails.. but I know he's just trying to do what he feels is right. Thankyou. Link to post Share on other sites
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