livelife Posted April 20, 2011 Share Posted April 20, 2011 We have been through a ton, he was my first love, I was his. He has tried to be friends, and I have tried but the feelings get past me and I can't do it. Last time I hung out with him was January. (We broke up a year ago, but he has strung me along.) Anyways, the past week he has been mentioning hanging out and seeing me and stuff, last night he texted me saying how he misses "how perfect we were, and out of the girls he's recently been talking to- none as nice as I was, and how I have been the only girl he's truly loved to this day, then tonight we decided to catch up so we started asking questions. He asked me if I was talking to any guys, and how many guys I've had sex with... My question is, what is his intentions? Is he just trying to be friends with me? What do you guys think. **Im not saying that because hes my first love- I would go back to him. that makes me look desperate. What actions do I take from here? Do I simply not reply to him the next time he tries to talk to me? Unfortunatly, I did answer his questions honestly. Even though it was none of his business. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted April 20, 2011 Share Posted April 20, 2011 He's your ex-. He has no right to be asking you questions, and you have no obligation to give him any answers. In fact, it would be a much better thing for you both if you simply decided to go No Contact and break off talking to him altogether.... Don't hook back up with him. he just wants to get back into old habits and re-live the familiar. You had begun to move on. Sever all ties, cut off all contact and move on. (see Caliguy's no Contact Guide in my signature.) Link to post Share on other sites
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