MarieNeedsHelp!!! Posted April 8, 2004 Share Posted April 8, 2004 Hi everyone ... I'm new to posting but I think Ya'll have some great idea's. I have a questiont put out here. What is the best ways to win back your love. I know that there is nothing that can magically work .... but anything u can try that might make someone say "damn what did I just give up"???? I need some words of wisdom hehe Link to post Share on other sites
Curt Posted April 8, 2004 Moderators Share Posted April 8, 2004 As a guy, I think this question is really a matter of IF you can, and not HOW you can. Even more important in the whole matter is should you NEED to try an win somebody back. If it broke off for some reason, it is my humble opinion that it was right for it to break off at that particular juncture. Trust in a greater plan. Don't be cold, be as warm and caring for him as you always were, but do not go out of your way. My take on it: Don't try to create an "artificial" situation to substitute for what was very real, mutual attraction and love at one point. TRULY real love endures past a period of dormancy, and seeks it's participants out once more. That which is lukewarm, or cool, will not flourish. Just my $0.02 Curt Link to post Share on other sites
Ms.Confused1 Posted April 8, 2004 Share Posted April 8, 2004 thanks curt you do make sense...... the break up was over lies other told him that he believed untill he found out the truth but then he still hasn't out back with him.... thats the confusing part... long story but he had sai dhe sitll loves me but isnt in love with me and that he just doesnt want a relationship right now but can see us getting back together in the future... twist though he just got with this new girl!!! I'm just trying to get him to keep noticing me Link to post Share on other sites
Martin Guerrini Posted April 8, 2004 Share Posted April 8, 2004 FIRST, read the posting on "no contact rule". SECOND, go to the gym, enroll yourself in some interesting course, read a good book, and fill your life with energy. The female beauty and the internal light are what attracts men. I think this is the best thing you can do about it. But remember, it is never easy to recover the attraction which has already come and gone. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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