Dealing With Cocaine and Pain Killer addiction

[jgirl]

My Boyfriend of 5 years is struggling with Cocaine and Pain Killer addiction. We broke up for about 6 months because of it. We are now back together and he is using again. I know that I shoud leave him but it is really hard because I love him so much when he is sober! When he uses drugs he turns into a completely different person. Especially while on Cocaine. When he is high on Coke he locks himself in his house and watches Porn all by himself. I am concerned because recently I found gay porn. AHHHHHH it was awful!!

He is extremely embarrassed about it. I Don't know if I should just leave him or what!! It is so hard!! How can I help with the addiction recovery?

[moimeme]

Here are some sites with information on dealing with your kind of problem:

 

http://www.three-peaks.net/annette/Drug-Addict.htm

 

http://www.pbhi.com/Members_Public/Library/articles/Global/Help_Fam_Member.asp

[booyou]

if you found gay porn in his room you may have more than an addiction to worry about. you said he was embarassed but did not mention much on whether gay porn turned him on or whether a curiosity thing. either way i hope that he can get himself some help. he has been sober before and he needs to be reminded that he can do it again.

[Tony T]

Thank you for the links.