be gentle

[dollface07]

my life is ruined as I let the former man I used to love have all of my compassion love and support to a man who merely used me as a stepping stone for his future career.

 

I was too giving and too trusting I am a woman my heart loved him very much he was my first real boyfriend I was too innocent

 

Now he's happy and matched in his residency I did everything his Dean letter of recommendation request resume essay etc

 

after he did not engage with me it was devastating

 

help me help me I'm having trouble recovering

My father died

my uncle died

I broke with my fiance

 

how will i go on

[JHS]

my life is ruined as I let the former man I used to love have all of my compassion love and support to a man who merely used me as a stepping stone for his future career.

 

I was too giving and too trusting I am a woman my heart loved him very much he was my first real boyfriend I was too innocent

 

Now he's happy and matched in his residency I did everything his Dean letter of recommendation request resume essay etc

 

after he did not engage with me it was devastating

 

help me help me I'm having trouble recovering

My father died

my uncle died

I broke with my fiance

 

how will i go on

 

Hi Dollface. So you have told us all that is wrong. Very sad story indeed. But is your life ruined? You were loved by him, right? You are certainly not unlovable. It hurts to lose someone and you lost 3, but you can recover. Why don't you now tell us what is right and good with your life. I am sure you are a beautiful, caring person. You now are free to find the person who will really value those things and not take advantage of them for his own needs. You're not ready right now, get yourself back, but in time...

[dollface07]

i was having a weak moment...and I appreciate your taking the time to help me keep things in perspective!

 

warmest,

~df