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How to get past an SO hurting you?


Timmeh

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I had one relationship and it was an LDR one. I didn't see her very much, maybe 4 times in the three years we were dating. I started a relationship seven months ago with a wonderful girl. Conflict is something new to me... the fights my ex and I had weren't actually 'fights'.

 

Fast forward to my current girlfriend, I said something I thought was not a big deal. It set her off and she started yelling at me... I couldn't tell if she was trying to fight or if she was venting. Either way when I tried to defend myself, defuse the situation, or comfort her it only made her angrier.

 

In the end she ended up saying some hurtful things to me in her PMS induced rage (yes it is that time of month for her). I know that she realized it and I know that she regrets saying those things from her reaction. I know PMS does crazy things to you ladies but I can't help but wonder if she meant those things. Even though she showed remorse I felt very hurt by what she said to me.

 

This is the first time I've been hurt by an SO this bad, and I'm wondering how to get past it... Should I take everything she said at face value even though I know it was that time of month for her?

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