flummoxed Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 My husband is stubborn and won't move on from resentments involving my best friend. I feel that I'm in the middle of this situation between them-they each don't care for the other. At this juncture, I feel my friendship is more valuable than my relationship with my husband. I don't know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 My husband is stubborn and won't move on from resentments involving my best friend. I feel that I'm in the middle of this situation between them-they each don't care for the other. At this juncture, I feel my friendship is more valuable than my relationship with my husband. I don't know what to do. Well I don't know the details of what's sparking the hatred between your H and your best friend. But that comment in bold is just so telling. I would NEVER ever want my partner to have to choose between me and a friend of his, but I sure would hope that if it ever came to that - he wouldn't value his R with his friend more than what me & him have. If you feel this way about your H - why are you even married to him? Again, yes, its true, I don't know the details, but that comment is just so indicative that your relationship with your H is worthless to you -so why be with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 Well I don't know the details of what's sparking the hatred between your H and your best friend. But that comment in bold is just so telling. I would NEVER ever want my partner to have to choose between me and a friend of his, but I sure would hope that if it ever came to that - he wouldn't value his R with his friend more than what me & him have. If you feel this way about your H - why are you even married to him? Again, yes, its true, I don't know the details, but that comment is just so indicative that your relationship with your H is worthless to you -so why be with him? This ^ It would be hard to add much. If he means less than someone else, maybe he should be told so he can decide what to do about it for his own sake. Link to post Share on other sites
BigBigMess Posted May 11, 2011 Share Posted May 11, 2011 My husband is stubborn and won't move on from resentments involving my best friend. I feel that I'm in the middle of this situation between them-they each don't care for the other. At this juncture, I feel my friendship is more valuable than my relationship with my husband. I don't know what to do. Good luck with that. My husband and my best friend have never gotten along. She resented him in the beginning because she felt he was taking me away from her. She was not very nice to him, but never did anything cruel or vindictive. And here we are 8 years later...I have kept my friendship with her, but we are not as close as we used to be because he refuses to move past it and will not forgive her. Wish I could offer some advice...you are not alone, though!! Link to post Share on other sites
DaisyLeigh Posted May 14, 2011 Share Posted May 14, 2011 Barring abuse or other toxicity in your marriage, it sounds like you are a jerk, quite frankly. If my husband decided that a friendship was worth more than our marriage, I would tell him to go be with the friend and we would divorce. Link to post Share on other sites
pilotDXB Posted June 2, 2011 Share Posted June 2, 2011 I would be tempted to let cooler heads prevail over time, but your comment over deciding between a friendship and your spouse is baffling. I would recommend that you seriously examine the state of your marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
Foreverintroverted Posted June 2, 2011 Share Posted June 2, 2011 I agree with the above. The one you're married to is supposed to be your best friend. Link to post Share on other sites
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