indianlover Posted April 24, 2011 Share Posted April 24, 2011 My relationship is on serious rocks and my partner refuses counseling, says he doesn't think it would help. We've been fighting pretty much for 5 days straight. We have a 1 year old son. I'm so devastated just looking for hope or advice. Link to post Share on other sites
jlokce6 Posted April 25, 2011 Share Posted April 25, 2011 First, stop fighting. Take a step back. Go stay with your best friend, parents, etc. Both of you need to get away from each other and the situation. Second, decide who is more comfortable with your son, not who is right, but who he needs to be with. Not knowing you, I would say the mom every time. You guys need perspective. Talking with each other isn't going to solve this. Talking with friends and family will help you guys see the path before you. Couple's counseling is a very common and important thing for you to do. If that won't happen then ask a friend or relative to act as mediator in your discussions. Don't make any rash decisions, don't be vindictive, don't seek another man's arms or other appendages, and don't focus on the bad feelings right now. Link to post Share on other sites
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