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lovers to friends, we have sex, he doesn't want it anymore?


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We started out casually dating years ago. It never went anywhere serious and eventually it ended after a year. We ran into each other after six months, another go at casual dating, and ended again.

 

 

 

I have a relationship in the meantime. It ends and we reconnect. I tell him we are only going to be platonic friends as the casual sex thing doesn’t seem to work between us. We really get know each other, develop a meaningful friendship over the last year.

 

 

Fast forward….we end up sleeping together a couple of weeks ago, twice. He’s afraid it will ruin the friendship and he likes what we have.

 

 

To the Men readers: translation please? To the women readers: ever happen to you before? I mean he was really trying to get in my pants initially and after a year, he gets the booty, and now he doesn’t want it?

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Your past experiences with him can tell you exactly what is going to happen again if you let it. He obviously values your friendship and is probably confused about what is going on.

 

What do you want? If you just want to be friends you need to draw a firm line and stop sleeping with him because ultimately you're going to develop deeper feelings for him and might even get hurt or worse lose the friendship you have.

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