Marbella Posted April 25, 2011 Share Posted April 25, 2011 I've been thinking if this is always the case. Typically if a parent had been violent during his/her childhood then it can go on to their kid. I'm getting concern the more I think about it. I'm a mother of a 1 year-old boy and hopefully he doesn't turn into a violent school bully like his mother was long ago. What if he starts being violent (hitting or insulting) towards other kids at school? Would I then be a hypocrite upon explaining how wrong it is? Should I at some point tell him how his mother, along with her two brothers were once a bully? Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted April 25, 2011 Share Posted April 25, 2011 a child will learn what he is taught; so if you still act aggresive and violent around your child chances are good that the child will pick the behavior up. bullying is NOT a genetic thing. it is not hypocritical to want your child to act properly; remember that saying do as i say, not as i do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marbella Posted April 25, 2011 Author Share Posted April 25, 2011 It's been a while since changing and still regret treating the other kids (more boys than girls) horrible. I want my son to be the complete opposite to what I was, a productive & caring young man. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted April 26, 2011 Share Posted April 26, 2011 It's been a while since changing and still regret treating the other kids (more boys than girls) horrible. I want my son to be the complete opposite to what I was, a productive & caring young man. then you have to be a productive and caring woman and mother. Link to post Share on other sites
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