Hello everyone, new to all of this.

[DigitalVixen]

Hello everyone, first time posting, My name is Rhiannon and I'm seeing someone who is relatively "long distance" he lives in New York and I live in Rhode Island, its only about a 3.5 hour drive so as compared to many of you here it's not very long distance. We arent 100% official yet, but we are working towards that.....the problem is, he is having a hard time with the distance, the fact that he cant just swing by and be with me anytime he wants. He has bee in long distance relationships before where I have not. I saw him this past weekend and he was so upset that he had to leave it just made me feel like he just wanted to stop everything and not try. Though he assures me thats not the case, he tells me he loves me and I know he does. I just dont want him getting discouraged and just dropping it. I have a strong feeling that we will be together for a very long time if this works out. As for moving I cant move because of my type of work (Im at tattoo artist and I have a large clientele here) and right now money is tough for him, also Its still early on in our "relationship" to really move in together. So if anyone here has any suggestions or ideas or advice it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much!