SunkistGirl Posted April 28, 2011 Share Posted April 28, 2011 Okay if I sat here and explained every detail I might as well write a book. lol SO to make it quick and short and to hopefully get responses here I go.. I am from City A currently paying off debt and looking for a new place. In city A is where my Fiance works and where his family lives. His family = Hate us. Have done evil things to me, separated me from my kids at one point, attempts to break me and their son up and list goes on they are racist white people who dont like me from day one. No matter how nice I was or tried to make them family... to 100 % assure you its racist my son is also tanned like me and my daughter isnt. She is twin of her daddy. So they treat me and my son like garbage and treat my daughter like shes a queen. My parents both passed so its just me in City A ...In city B my brothers are there and loving Aunts who want to help me out. who will show my kids what its like to be family. My fiance can relocate and I very much want to Live in City B for myself to be around loving family and for my kids to see people love and be there for eachother like family should be. also have better job opportunity for myself as well.. Question is ::: Do I go and leave his family behind??? City A is on one side of the state and City B is the Opposite. We'd be like 8 hours apart. But we'd all be happier and living in a healthier enviroment. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SunkistGirl Posted April 28, 2011 Author Share Posted April 28, 2011 If that avatar is you then you don't seem tan. Why can't you all go to city B? I usually expect in the back of my mind that the family will be settled closer to the mother's family than the father's unless there are domestic issues or other circumstances. I guess I am a traditionalist in that way. It was what happened with my family as a child but my father's family was nutty. Well my Fiance and I can go with our kids. And we'd be with my family and everything would be great. But His parents own a home in City A and have they're 3 other kids living here as well. And they dont want to leave here ever. We would definatly come visit them. But am I being selfish to want to move so far away? haha yes the picture is me. But it is a december shot I seen no Sun yet.. But I am a mixed nationality of things they dont like. so it sucks they pictured his girlfriend to look like Kate Hudson basically... Link to post Share on other sites
Author SunkistGirl Posted April 28, 2011 Author Share Posted April 28, 2011 If that avatar is you then you don't seem tan. Why can't you all go to city B? I usually expect in the back of my mind that the family will be settled closer to the mother's family than the father's unless there are domestic issues or other circumstances. I guess I am a traditionalist in that way. It was what happened with my family as a child but my father's family was nutty. But I do feel the exact same feeling that we should be closer to my family. Which makes me feel a little better =) Link to post Share on other sites
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