TooMuchPride Posted April 28, 2011 Share Posted April 28, 2011 as we all know the holidays just passed...and thats one of the weakest time during no contact when most people break it...christmas & birthdays are the hardest days for most people....but to me...easter is an easy one...i dont know alot of peopl who take easter seriously enough to start wishing it to people...but hey some do my ex burned me...and of course i shared this with my close ones...obviously my mother...so she is just as disgusted with my ex as i am...my ex and her never had no relationship...they didnt speak and if they did it was about me and rarely...i do know my ex texted my mother a few times just to say "hello" when we were together... but i was still surprised to hear after after about a month and a half NC...my mother tells me..." oh _____ texted me on easter" i was like huhhh?...my first instinct was...maybe it was a general text sent to everyone in his phone until she recited what it said "hey mom just wishing you a happy easter and a good weekend" :| i meannnnn it COULD be harmless...but...i know i wouldnt text my exes mothers....especially calling them mom...knowing what i did to their children...my mom doesnt like him but she responded "Thankyou" out of kindess...i was mad at her for even answering but oh well...i know he didnt text ME....but i still think its weird... unless he has a group with all the girls he talked to's moms and sent to them all...i wouldnt put it past the sick bastard..lol but what does anyone think?...is it nothing?...or do i have the right to be a lil skeptical about it? Link to post Share on other sites
Billie The Puppet Posted April 28, 2011 Share Posted April 28, 2011 I'm the dumpee and I called my ex's father on his BDAY. I didn't call him dad, but I honestly developed a friendship with him. His birthday happened to be around the time I was dumped by his daughter. Recently my ex's Mother's birthday past but I did not call to do the same and I believe this is due to the fact that although I liked her I didn't develop the same relationship I did with the father. In a week or so it's my ex's sister BDAY in which I will call and or text her but again I developed a friendship with her too. However all of what you are saying indicates the text intent was not a respectful one. It seems like it was meant to hurt. I mean you say they never had a real friendship etc and to be so disrespectful and refer to your mother as mom. It seems like he wanted to see if he still holds power over you. I'm sorry a respectful text would have reffered to your mother as ms or mrs. Last name not mom. Link to post Share on other sites
Author TooMuchPride Posted April 29, 2011 Author Share Posted April 29, 2011 yea :\ not sure i would use disrespect but yea....the intent didn't seem genuine at all... just dont understand what would come from that....was it even supposed to reach me? like was she supposed to relay it to me to have me thinking? or what :S....ahhh...-.- Link to post Share on other sites
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