HeatherSullivan Posted April 9, 2004 Share Posted April 9, 2004 My longtime boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. I, of course am upset and i want a second chance with him. Going about that seemed easy till i spoke with him today and it was an in opportune time, all his friends were there. He played the tough guy and said very little, even though last night when we were deciding to g out seperate ways he was still close, and affectionate. So what to do to get him back? Give him a few days of space? (Today he completely ignored me but i think that was him showing off and enjoying the new found freedoms he can have) Start slow? just let him cool off? Advice please! Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted April 9, 2004 Share Posted April 9, 2004 Do not talk to him anymore. He knows how you feel, now let him come to you. You are giving him too much power and he loves it. You cannot do anything to win him back right now. So what to do to get him back? Do nothing. Give him a few days of space? How about months or even years. Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted April 9, 2004 Share Posted April 9, 2004 You can't win a guy back... it might be possible for a day or two, but it is going to hurt more when you are "dumped" again. Besides, why be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Give him space, give him time, and don't push anything. Follow the no contact rule, if he wants you back, he will come back. If not, he just isn't the one. I wish you lots of luck~ Link to post Share on other sites
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