RedIvy Posted April 29, 2011 Share Posted April 29, 2011 Hi all...I was just wondering why men watch porn even if they have a girlfriend who is very sexual and will do anything in bed? I don't get it. Are we not good enough? Is that what it means? I just need some clarification on this subject. Helpppp!! Link to post Share on other sites
molimo140 Posted April 29, 2011 Share Posted April 29, 2011 I don't claim to speak for all guys, but.. Having sex takes a lot of effort. Don't get me wrong, I love having real sex and being close with my girlfriend, but sometimes when I'm alone and just want something simple, then I'll turn to the alternative. Also.. self-service is more fun for guys with some visual stimulation. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted April 29, 2011 Share Posted April 29, 2011 What you mean is - "Why does My Man watch porn even if I am his girlfriend and am very sexual and will do anything in bed? I don't get it. Am I not good enough? Is that what it means? I just need some clarification on this subject. Helpppp!!" We need more to go on.... How long has this been going on? Is he depressed? Does he still have sex with you? Does he work? How long have you been together? Do you watch it with him? Does he watch it in secret? Does he masturbate to it? Does he masturbate in your absence/in secret? (That you know of...obviously!) There may be a lot more to this than meets the eye, see..... Link to post Share on other sites
Noor Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 it maybe a bad habit. he may visit a doctor or something. he may pray for god, asking for help, if he really want to stop. On the other hand you may ask him if you are really the girl of his dream. You may ask him if he really loves you ! And why you do not get marry too ! Faith and Sincerity are good. thank you and forgive me Link to post Share on other sites
theseeker Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 I don't think it has anything to do with you or you being good enough. See it like this: he isn't cheating on you, so you're the one he wants. You could ask whether he would mind if you watched some with him for a couple of minutes? MOVIE NIGHT! Link to post Share on other sites
thehead Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 Absolutely positively is just about getting off. Men want sex. Guilty! No need to sweat your melon over it. Porn makes getting off quick and easy. No fuss no muss. Nothing personal. Please don't make me lapse into a monologue about the biological difference between the sexes....please? Link to post Share on other sites
light2 Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 I don't claim to speak for all guys, but.. Having sex takes a lot of effort. Don't get me wrong, I love having real sex and being close with my girlfriend, but sometimes when I'm alone and just want something simple, then I'll turn to the alternative. Also.. self-service is more fun for guys with some visual stimulation. that is exactly it. don't need to look so deep into it like all the other posts. porn is to quick, easy and most importantly there is no pressure. Link to post Share on other sites
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