aerogurl87 Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 Congrats Tara, wow I haven't been on here in awhile cause somehow I missed you were engaged.... guess I should stay more informed. Link to post Share on other sites
Author TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2011 Author Share Posted May 4, 2011 Well, I explained in another post: I met him in August 2004, but we actually hitched up in that October. However, he maintains that he knew almost immediately that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, and 2 weeks into getting together, he bought me a ring. he'd never thought of buying his exes a ring. Now here we are in 2011, and we're finally able to put our money where our mouth is! Never having had any money up to now, it's been a hard and laborious 7 years, with 4 of those so fraught with ups and downs, at times I didn't know whether I could stay sane long enough to see it through. Loads of times I felt like bringing things to an end, and halting the entire process, but something stopped me. There's always been that glimmer telling me, 'hang in there, this is worth it'. Not everybody gets that chance, and not everybody's glimmer is genuine.... But when it is, the reward is priceless. At 54, I'm setting off on a new journey. Glad to be here to tell you all about it, and have you guys share in my happiness. I've received PMs from folks here too, and I thank everyone both for the public good wishes, and the private positive sentiments. With much love, from a Lucky and happy lady! *thumbsup*!! Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 I am so very happy for you, my dear! I can't wait to see a picture of you in your beautiful linen suit ... and towering fascinator, of course. Link to post Share on other sites
Graceful Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 You met in 2004? Are you sure you're not rushing into this? Seriously! Thank you for the summary of the loving journey that led you to this very happy moment in your life. I hope your wedding day rocks your world, as you make one of life's greatest commitments to love, honor and cherish. Best wishes! Link to post Share on other sites
Author TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2011 Author Share Posted May 4, 2011 yeah...2004...took our time.... Ironic then, that the ceremony is a 7-minute wonder!! 'Mr Maiden' is insistent that we do something "bigger and better" a little later in the year. So while the wedding itself is going to be low-key.... (low-key? heck, it's so 'low key' it's under the mat!! ) ....we shall push the boat out a little later..... Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 Congrats. May your lives be comfortable, loving and full of deep belly laughs. I'm so happy for you. The 24th is a good date. I'm due the 23rd and can't believe baby is still a hold out. Maybe she'll come the 24th. Link to post Share on other sites
yessy21 Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 CONGRATTTTTSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Things like this make girls like me believe. >SIGH< Link to post Share on other sites
Author TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2011 Author Share Posted May 4, 2011 Congrats. May your lives be comfortable, loving and full of deep belly laughs. I'm so happy for you. The 24th is a good date. I'm due the 23rd and can't believe baby is still a hold out. Maybe she'll come the 24th. It's my partner's birthday that day too. so it's a double celebration..... What better birtday gift could he possibly be getting....? :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 I bet my whole life savings ($3.24 and a chocolate bar wrapper I found in the couch) that it will be a super-wonderful day and that you will have a super-wonderful marriage! I do wonder if yours will outlast newwavemary's Link to post Share on other sites
nittygritty Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 Congrats Taramaiden! Much happiness to you and your fiance. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 We should all get together and send TM one of those gigantic cards lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2011 Author Share Posted May 4, 2011 I bet my whole life savings ($3.24 and a chocolate bar wrapper I found in the couch) that it will be a super-wonderful day and that you will have a super-wonderful marriage! If the chocolate wrapper had nut-chocolate - that will suit me down to the ground!! We'll do our best, dot.... I do wonder if yours will outlast newwavemary's I'm severely handicapped in that I aim to sleep with one man only, and he's not super-rich so it's not about the money - but I will rise to any challenge!! Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 If the chocolate wrapper had nut-chocolate - that will suit me down to the ground!! We'll do our best, dot.... I'm severely handicapped in that I aim to sleep with one man only, and he's not super-rich so it's not about the money - but I will rise to any challenge!! I will send him my $3.24 and the chocolate bar wrapper to enhance his portfolio! All the best... Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 congratulations to the two of you ... and may your marriage be full of unexpected blessings :love: Link to post Share on other sites
Author TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2011 Author Share Posted May 4, 2011 dot, I couldn't possibly let you part with your life savings like that.... Please, you're too generous. Keep the wrapper..... Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 dot, I couldn't possibly let you part with your life savings like that.... Please, you're too generous. Keep the wrapper..... I actually laughed out loud at that and woke the dog up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2011 Author Share Posted May 4, 2011 Cool!! Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 I've been making wedding roses from paper for a cousin's wedding all week. I'm all wedding'd out...... My SO is very nervous about the wedding arrangements laying about. I'm so random and off topic these days. It's the baby sucking my brain out. Sorry. Do you have a special place you will be doing the wedding or are you going to the courthouse? Big family gathering or just a few friends? Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 I renewed just to tell you that this is wonderful news. I am genuinely, sincerely, and personally very very pleased for you and also excited for you as you begin this new journey. This is good. Link to post Share on other sites
Author TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2011 Author Share Posted May 4, 2011 I've been making wedding roses from paper for a cousin's wedding all week. I'm all wedding'd out...... My SO is very nervous about the wedding arrangements laying about. I'm so random and off topic these days. It's the baby sucking my brain out. Sorry. I find babies do that, long after we've had them. The job then reverts to the husband. The only cure is to find them a pastime that distracts them long enough to stop them transforming into irritating delinquents....Like mowing the lawn.....or doing a crossword... I like to give my partner this week's 'Times' crossword. But I give him last week's clues. It keeps him occupied for hours. Do you have a special place you will be doing the wedding or are you going to the courthouse? Big family gathering or just a few friends? Here in the UK we have local-Government-run Registry offices, and officially- appointed Registrars. They're not JoPs and have no legal power or authority other than to register and officiate at marriages. The marriages have to be completely non-religious. Just we 2, and a couple of witnesses, but we're all going to a local restaurant for a nice meal afterwards. My partner's known his Best Man since they were both in their late teens, so they go back a long way. In fact, I think his BM has been his BM at both his previous weddings!! Still, third time lucky!! :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted May 6, 2011 Share Posted May 6, 2011 Congratulations!!! What a happy tale or sticking it through :love: Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted May 6, 2011 Share Posted May 6, 2011 I find babies do that, long after we've had them. The job then reverts to the husband. The only cure is to find them a pastime that distracts them long enough to stop them transforming into irritating delinquents....Like mowing the lawn.....or doing a crossword... I like to give my partner this week's 'Times' crossword. But I give him last week's clues. It keeps him occupied for hours. :lmao::lmao::lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted May 6, 2011 Share Posted May 6, 2011 I am getting married on the 24th of May. Just thought you'd all like to know...... That is the day my parents married 48 years ago. Many blessings. Link to post Share on other sites
Stung Posted May 7, 2011 Share Posted May 7, 2011 It's just one day off from my parents' wedding anniversary--this year will be 41 years. Obviously it's a lucky week. And it's getting closer... Link to post Share on other sites
zebracolors Posted May 7, 2011 Share Posted May 7, 2011 Tara Maiden, tabrikler! (congratulations!) Heres to a happy life for you both! Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
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