Richard Friedman Posted May 6, 2011 Share Posted May 6, 2011 heheh. Maybe it was rape was rape under the Swedish definition, which is any sexual interaction the woman regrets after the fact. Don't waste your time with this navel-gazing, blame-everyone-but-me nonsense. Either work on yourself or let the poor guy go. Link to post Share on other sites
cyabye Posted May 6, 2011 Share Posted May 6, 2011 I don't think it was rape. I think you have painted a picture that makes you look like a poor naive wife who just made a mistake when in reality you knew what you were doing the entire time. Your affair was not some spontaneous action. You two worked it up. When you went into the office, closed the door and started to have sex you knew the entire time what was going on and never asked him to stop. You kissed back and screwed the OM. Even at the start of this post you stated that you still had feelings for him. If someone raped you that would not be the case This is the double standard when it comes to cheating, everyone always assumes that the woman is a victim. They make the claim that one of her needs weren't being met or in your case she wasn't in the right state of mind. You cheated and had sex because you wanted too and now you are looking for a way to relieve the guilt. How many times did you have sex with the OM? Agreed. The BS she's dishing is getting thick....... Link to post Share on other sites
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