WiselyNaive Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 am I the only one that gets scared my ex is reading this lol... i have a rock solid "Act" on right now...i havent made any remarks that could be about my ex since we ended n im acting tough as a rock...whenever i begin to feel week..i come n share some feelings.....but i sometimes an scared that my ex could find this site read this stuff n automatically know its me...anytime i read a post that sounds similar to my situation i get scared it could be him... has that ever happened?...does ay1 ever get that feeling that their ex could stumble upon their post of how sick they are about the break up? Link to post Share on other sites
TragicAlliance Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 I don't know if I should be admitting this, but after everything I've been through this weekend... what the hell. Got nothing else to lose. I KNOW my ex is reading my posts on here... in fact, he, too, has an account on here. We decided to come to this forum together so we could each tell our own side of the story, open and honestly, and receive unbiased opinions based on how we each felt. We'd then compare the answers we get, and see what comes of it. Yes, we know that we're reading each other's posts... but we're posting them at separate times, which allows us to be a bit more honest than if we were sending emails back and forth or talking on IM. Plus, we're getting honest answers that can't be one of those, "Oh no, that might hurt him/her, I gotta edit or delete this..." And that's what we want. It may help us, it may not... but we've always been a bit of an odd couple... and we won't know until we try. Link to post Share on other sites
BlindRage Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 I wouldn't care if my ex read them. If she did and she commented to me about them -specially since we don't talk anymore- I would ignore her. Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 Huh. My ex is too oblivious to seek help for feelings. What he feels is always right, which is right and wrong at the same time. Oh well. Not my problem anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 Oh Lordy I wish it were so....! Link to post Share on other sites
radiodarcy Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 i've had the same thought cross my mind as well. i kind of wish he would see these posts. but even if he did - - as detailed as they are - - he'd probably refuse to believe i was writing about him Link to post Share on other sites
Fufu Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 Don't give a hack if he read or not. Link to post Share on other sites
hellon Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 I get paranoid about that, thinking that the details of our breakup are unique, and would be obvious to anyone who knew me. But honestly, if you read all the posts, a lot of them sound the same. Besides, I can't imagine any reason he would have to even come across this site. He's off being happy. Link to post Share on other sites
silvermane187 Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 I wouldn't really care. She already knwos how much I care, there's nothing I'm ashamed of. Link to post Share on other sites
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