Meridith Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 How do I tell my new boyfriend/lover that his constant swearing is enough to spoil our relationship? Also when on a date he stares at all the hot waitress and discusses them with me......I am not insecure about my looks, but friends have commented on it. I would not change anything else about him, but this 2 things will cause me to end our relationship. I believe in not trying to change people but can't get past this....... Help please Link to post Share on other sites
Flgirl44 Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 You kinda answered your own question. Apart from pulling him aside and explaining how it makes you feel, the only other option is to leave. You don't want to have to change him, but his behavior is a deal breaker, the next logical thing to do would be break up. Hope that helps! Link to post Share on other sites
linwood Posted May 2, 2011 Share Posted May 2, 2011 Just tell him you find the foul mouth ugly and the ogling behavior disrespectful. Tell him if he doesn`t stop it`s a deal breaker and mean it. Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted May 3, 2011 Share Posted May 3, 2011 How do I tell my new boyfriend/lover that his constant swearing is enough to spoil our relationship? Also when on a date he stares at all the hot waitress and discusses them with me......Help please Better yet, why don't you help us all understand why women don't immediately turn and run from men like that?? Seems to me you're likely to get as much respect from men as you demand (which, sadly enough, applies to far more than just you). Link to post Share on other sites
Author Meridith Posted May 4, 2011 Author Share Posted May 4, 2011 Hey thanks everyone......all good advice....To be fair, he is great....but not perfect....and your right, these are deal breakers and again to be fair to him I should give him a chance to change or not.... Link to post Share on other sites
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