frenchmanfl Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 My story is a complicated one. My wife cannot be alone when she panics as she has. If anyone has read my other posts they will know that the OM in question, while comforting is simply beyond what I could ever see my wife actually going anywhere with beyond maybe a loving confidant. In discussions with her Mom yesterday, she even expressed that " she does not believe my wife is romantically involved with this guy ". So my question is, after 2 weeks completely separated and some very big decisions regarding moving etc.. I have played the LC card as best as I can under some complicated circumstances. I know that everyone has made it clear that I should not ask about the OM or show any interest in what she might be doing, but I do want confirmation that she is with this guy and would like to ask her to confirm it. I will preface by saying that i will not use this information in a legal case to fight for custody, because no matter what we both love our son and I would never use this against her. I have been over the reasons why there is a chance that she is not doing anything but using this guy as an emotional buffer. If however she has taken things further then knowing would be the final kick in the pants for me to get moving in my own direction. I am already better spiritually but maybe that last step will say ok, move on... Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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