In LD breakups, is contact between the ex's less by nature of the situation?

[fool4love]

Do you thinks it's easier for the "Dumper" to move on after a LD relationship, b/c there's no hope of seeing or running into your ex from so far away. I was in a LD relationship, just dumped almost 2 months ago, and we haven't had much contact, and I'm just wondering if you think it's easier for him to drop ties since we can't have any physical, face to face contact? It's damn frustrating b/c all I can think about is him and we have no contact, and I'm losing hope that he'll ever contact me again.

[Sundaymorning]

It is hard to tell who will take it harder. In many instances, it has been harder for me (the dumper) to move on. BUt honestly, I think the reason all you can think about is him is because you cannot have him. We always want what we cannot have. I suggest you remembering the bad times and why yall broke up, then analyze what went wrong so it does not happen with the next guy who could be super.