Odradek Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 Ever got dumped and then had the dumper wanting to get you back? How did you deal with it? Tried to play around with them a little to see if they were for real? Took them back just to get your revenge by dumping THEM? Or merely gave them the subtle but nevertheless fulfilling "TOO LATE BUDDY"? Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 Originally posted by Odradek Or merely gave them the subtle but nevertheless fulfilling "TOO LATE BUDDY"? I just had the opportunity to do something like that. Mine was not NEAR close to 'subtle' and I had MUCH worse names than 'Buddy'. LMAO!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 How did you deal with it? Have not experienced it. Tried to play around with them a little to see if they were for real? That would be lame. Took them back just to get your revenge by dumping THEM? That would be stupid. Or merely gave them the subtle but nevertheless fulfilling "TOO LATE BUDDY"? It's always too late when they break up with you. "There is no coming back." - by Me Link to post Share on other sites
Heartfelt Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 I guess it's according to how in love you were. Make them chase you for a while, prove themselves. That's what I'm kind of doing right now. If there was no love involved, then don't waste time with it, move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 I've been in quite a few relationships and when I get dumped, the dumper had always wanted me back, ranging from a year and half to eight years later. When I get dumped, the love I once had for them turns to lust, so if when they do ask to reconcile, I play along, but the only thing I'm really interested in is hitting the punani one last time and then kicking their a$$e$ to the curb. I'm never interested in rekindling something that burnt out long ago. ~V Link to post Share on other sites
befuddled11 Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 Looking back, some of the most significant relationships in my life (some), I was dumped in a sense because they ended up cheating (okay, so I ended it, but in my opinion, they ended it the minute they cheated). It's never failed, they've always ended up "seeing the light" at some point later on...and wanting to get back together. Whether it was that they realized the grass wasn't greener on the other side or they realized they really wanted to be back with me, ......well in my past situations, I never gave them the time of day because once you cheat on me, you're done like dinner...the "trust" will never be earned again and I'd be miserable with someone I didn't trust. I guess, though, it depends a lot on the reason a person was dumped. Maybe if they were dumped because their partner had things with themself that they needed to sort out, and they weren't dumping the person for "someone else", and they ended up sorting things out and felt sorry for hurting the person they dumped and wanted to try again, well, I guess I'd consider it. It really just depends. However, as a rule, I think that if someone really hurts me and breaks my heart, it will just never be the same again...always in the back of my mind, I'll remember that hurt they caused, never forget the kind of hurt they're capable of causing, and I'd be quite leary of setting myself up to be hurt (or used or whatever) again. Link to post Share on other sites
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