Vondutch15 Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 OK. i've been having so many problems with this one guy. first of all, i'm 16 and am a sophomore in high school. all year, i've liked this one guy in my geography class. he's been so flirty with me... (smiling, starring, finding ways to sit next to me...etc), but he never really talked to me *unless it was school related*. Finally, i realized his extreme shyness and decided to let him know i liked him. i told my friend to tell him, and she did. she said he said, "really?!? OK!!" now, he's being VERY weird. he doesn't look at me anymore... he doesn't walk by me anymore. he doesn't pay attention to me at all. what's this? should i just... take a hint and move on? try and talk to him? :-( I'm so confused! Link to post Share on other sites
DerangedAngel Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 now, he's being VERY weird. he doesn't look at me anymore... he doesn't walk by me anymore. he doesn't pay attention to me at all. what's this? My opinion, he likes you... but doesn't know exactly how to go about asking you out for a date (even though he's been told that you like him as well). i told my friend to tell him... Oh. Bad. Approach him yourself, when you feel comfortable. Ask him if he'd like to go out to a movie (or something, I'm forgetting high school...) sometime. Good luck. -Deranged Link to post Share on other sites
nicolas465 Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 hehe, he likes you i'm a shy guy too.. theres a girl that i like in my class.. my friend just introduced me to her the other day... i find myself sitting beside her in class (like 4inches away.. heheh the chairs are always so close ) but anyways.. i find that i kinda ignore her and talk to other ppl around me.. even if she tries to get into the convo.. i feel bad but i dunno.. i gues it's shy guy thing... so your guy is just probably like oh crap what do i do?!?! it's kinda hard for you to do anything but keep trying to talk to him.. the only way to fix it is if he decides to come outta his little shelll . maybe you can help me w/my prob now hehe.. if u look in the "dating" forum i posted something that says "over protective parents" can ya help me? thanks nic Link to post Share on other sites
Uno Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 well i'd say that u dont have anything u can do if he's shy. u cant ask him out cause u dont even know exactly if he likes u or nt, BUT if he didnt like u more than friends why wouldnt he talk 2 u nomore? he could just tell u how he feels etc. id say he likes u and he is 2 shy 2 express himself so he runs u dont have much 2 do, u cant just go and ask him out. wait or find yourself somebody else(then u will see him around more) Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 ....so your guy is just probably like oh crap what do i do?!?!...... I'm thinking that's exactly what is happening here. Like Deranged said - this is a time when you will have to make the move, keeping it light like how she put it so he doesn't get too scared. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
dolphinsunshyn Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 Since he know you like him, the ball is now in HIS court. He is probably interested, but is playing hard to get. He may not want to seem overly anxious. You do the same. Act like it doesn't bother you. Just be your sassy confident self. Act like you don't care if he talks to you or not. If you act bothered, he'll pick up on it and shy away. Go through your day like normal. Guys, in general, like a challenge. Now that he knows you like him, some of the thrill of the chase may be gone. Make it seem like you don't care and some of that will be restored. Playing hard to get now will allow him to gain some the the excitment and anticipation back. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Uno Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 dolphinsunshyn: [color=red]Playing hard to get now will allow him to gain some the the excitment and anticipation back. [/color] i think u'r right but it might make him shyer. but it'll cost u less Link to post Share on other sites
cabbie Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 He sounds very shy. Why don't you try chatting with him some more, if you like how that goes, consider asking him out. Just because you ask someone to do something does not have to mean that you have huge romantic designs on them, the motivation could be as innocent as, 'you seem cool, it might be fun to hang out'... as opposed to something involving stronger sentiment. A very safe approach. Take it from there- I mean you might be the one to find you don't want more after this point, you just never know! Best wishes.... Link to post Share on other sites
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