ShortFuze Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 I hate it when you are out with a girl and it's quiet and there isn't anything to talk about. It's hard to keep up a good conversation with a girl on the phone or in person. I run into those silent periods. So what is there to talk about with a girl? It's hard because there are always questions asked with short answers. And then I'm thinking to myself..."What should I talk about next?" It's not that simple. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShortFuze Posted April 10, 2004 Author Share Posted April 10, 2004 One other thing I forget to mention...when the guy and the girl run into those silent periods...why does the girl seem to blame the guy for the quiet time? Is it the guy's job to think of something to talk about all the time? This concerns me sometimes cause then I don't want to be considered a boring person who doesn't talk. But doesn't a conversation take more then one person? So it shouldn't be blamed on the guy... Link to post Share on other sites
miekoveli Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 Originally posted by ShortFuze I hate it when you are out with a girl and it's quiet and there isn't anything to talk about Hey i been thru that lol.. i mean alot!! I guess one have to ask as many question as you can.. also i found out that.. being C&F(Cocky&Funny).. tells the girls that your confident, secure, intellengent, and just charming. You notice that those are what girls are attracted too.. hopefully the girl you talking to would loosen up...later she's be asking you questions and talking more, and more often. IF C&F dont work, she's probabbly some uptight girl, with no sense of humor. --MIEKOVELI Link to post Share on other sites
Lilyann Posted April 10, 2004 Share Posted April 10, 2004 As female, I do understand what you are saying. However, I just recently went through a similar situation. I just thought of questions that I would like to know the answers to, such as what do they like to eat, where have they traveled, where would they want to travel, who would they like to meet if they could meet anyone dead or alive, etc. Questions such as these gives you a sense of what type of person the individual is and whether or not you wopuld be compatible with him or her. In additon, if you would like to spend more time with this person. Generally when you lay questions out there make sure there are answers on both sides. This worked for me and the guy that I was with threw back his own questions. Good luck. I really hope that this has helped you. Most of all try not to be nervous, which is easier said than done! Link to post Share on other sites
Tkay Posted April 11, 2004 Share Posted April 11, 2004 I have the same problem. But only with people I don't know very well. With some people I just don't feel like talking sometimes. Like yesterday I was at this party, and one of my best female friends,my neighbour, said something why dont u say anything or tell anything like that guy over there and i was like omg i just dont feel like talking, leave me alone. I just don't want to talk at the moment, don't you get it? I guess its because i hang around her too often or something or am I just such an antisocial person? Link to post Share on other sites
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