Author giuliano-3 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Share Posted May 17, 2011 She's still blocked on FB, didn't call her or return the text from a week ago. Felt like I had to do something, for some reason. I wrote a very short letter which basically said I don't feel animosity towards her anymore, made it clear that our paths have forked and we won't be communicating anymore in the near future, gave her an update regarding my mom, wished her well on all future journeys. It felt right, it felt like closure for both of us. The true end of an era. Since then I haven't even felt the slightest urge to contact her or do any e-stalking. I also haven't been coming on here every day for hours. I will still check back periodically, reading some of the newer posts by names I don't recognize I realize the Coping thread of LS is like an Emergency Room - new people getting hurt every day. Best of luck to all, thanks to everyone who helped me reach this point, talk to you again soon...Cheers!!! Link to post Share on other sites
ahoy Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 Not really much of a story, just a curious thing that's happened once or twice (try seven times). She's been blocked since the day after we split up, however at random intervals it seems that she can still message me - her profile doesn't come up, just the blacked out name but dated to the day received. So definitely a new message. Pity I delete them without reading, eh? Link to post Share on other sites
happiness0421 Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 Ahoy - interesting that she can still message you. That doesn't make sense. I went onto Facebook today to clean up my profile a little bit (I blocked him two weeks ago) - I had "Liked" his work's group page when we first started dating, and I find out that he has "Un-liked" me from the page. HONESTLY?!!?! Did it really bother you THAT much?! I cannot believe that I am talking about a 26 year old right now. Absolutely ridiculous. It makes me angry how much Facebook is a memory of the relationship and how much effort he went through unfriending me, all my friends, my work group, etc. Just insane. Link to post Share on other sites
Author giuliano-3 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Share Posted May 17, 2011 It makes me angry how much Facebook is a memory of the relationship and how much effort he went through unfriending me, all my friends, my work group, etc. Just insane. Yup, facebook makes the coping process quite a bit more difficult. Instead of the imagination running wild and driving you crazy, you can actually see what the ex is doing and visualize things much more vividly. A funny thing happened after I blocked my ex on fb, I stopped going on facebook pretty much altogether. No need any more, it made me realize how she was the main reason I would use it during the past 5 months. Even posts I'd write on other walls would be written with her seeing it in mind. Weird how the mind works. Facebook has its purposes, and I don't plan on getting rid of it altogether - but I also feel very liberated now that I don't use it on the regular anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
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