strlixx Posted May 8, 2011 Share Posted May 8, 2011 my sister is in a relatoinship wit some1 from back home which is northern poland.......andwe have moved to, well not gonna say lol but another continent entirely/ she loves deeply the man she left and is sad all the time. keep going ? they talk on the internet but its not the same. hes heartbroken they were gonna get married dont ask y we left it was a personal reason. i didntwant to either but i had my s.o come with me so....... he told her that if she doesnt come back hell have to move on, is this right/ i feel as though that is mean of him and kind of tricky Link to post Share on other sites
simplicity619 Posted May 9, 2011 Share Posted May 9, 2011 I don't know... The reason people do long distance relationships is because they would rather hold on to that person and wait until they can be together instead of maybe settling for someone who maybe is closer geographically, and therefore convenient. LDRs are tough, but if you really love someone, you would wait and endure the hardships of not being physically close. By saying that he'll have to move on, he's pretty much saying he doesn't care enough to wait it out. I know that's harsh, but it's the truth. True love can transcend distance. Link to post Share on other sites
creighton0123 Posted May 10, 2011 Share Posted May 10, 2011 It is neither mean or tricky. If she doesn't move back, he will have to move on. It's him saying that he does not want a long distance relationship. In the area of love and romance, that is perfectly acceptable. Link to post Share on other sites
wild_urge Posted May 11, 2011 Share Posted May 11, 2011 Creighton0123, I agree with you unfortunately for the girl. Also, she is the one that left, it's normal that he is upset and it's normal to get angry and in a way blame the other person for moving away, thus threatening to break the relationship. He's probably either hurt or maybe he's not made for a long distance relationship. I'm sorry for your sister . . . Link to post Share on other sites
TokyoG33kyGal Posted May 11, 2011 Share Posted May 11, 2011 did your sister give him some sort of assurance, plans of meeting in the near future, etc. before you moved? if everything's so abrupt, then i understand how he feels. relationship, long distance or not, requires mutual understanding. and if it was not established, it is hard to be on the same page and continue the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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