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Hi guys, and thanks to those that read, and post.

 

So ill start with my problem,

- my ex broke up with me after 2.5years because i lost it. i wasnt giving much effort into the relationship. i dont know if i should get deep into details. well She says she doesnt love me the same way anymore, just like best friends, how we were before dating. the first week after the break up we still would hang out. and i showed her i still loved her and our relationship still has what it needs to survive. somedays it was as if nothing was wrong, she would initiate the holding, kissing, intimacy. other days she wouldnt feel "it" anymore. shes also says she doesnt want to be together and have me fail again. she also says she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now.

 

after seeking advice from fellow chat users here, i found the No Contact to be the best solution. i know she would miss me. but i cant get my self to tell her that. i need help on how to approach the subject. im afraid of just telling her that im sorry but i just cant talk to her anymore.

 

i know how she thinks. she will say ok turn around, walk away, and never look to speak to me again. if i told her NC she wouldnt talk to me ever again. but thats not how i want it to end. i want NC but for her to come back to me when she sees i have changed. fyi the changes i made were not just for her they are to benefit me as a person and any possible relationships in the future. (anger issues towards family not my ex gf, responsibilities, priorities, etc.)

 

P.S. in the end of july my family, my ex and i will be taking a trip to cancun. i have thought about NC till that day, and it gives me 3 months to work on myself.