Author perfectlyunique Posted May 17, 2011 Author Share Posted May 17, 2011 Bless his cotton socks. Fill his life with joy. Is he at school yet? They may be able to help you too, with helping him in this period of his life. yep hes at full time school, hes 6. i was having some problems with him in regards to his behaviour. he seems to have developed a bit of an attitude so i couldnt be bothered to deal with my mum too although just latley my son seems to be better. im going to find it hard after my operation with having him because theres only so many days off work my bf can have off as we need the money and i feel cheeky asking my sons dad because hes just had a baby with his wife, if my mum was normal she could have helped, so i guess ill just have to struggle taking him to school and stuff Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 Still worth asking his dad. Worst he can do is refuse to help, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Author perfectlyunique Posted May 17, 2011 Author Share Posted May 17, 2011 Still worth asking his dad. Worst he can do is refuse to help, right? yer i suppose i mean he works full time but his wife stopped working as she has a little baby nowhopefully she wont mind Link to post Share on other sites
applefruit Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 your mum needs a professional to keep an eye on her and give her all the attention shes looking for from you and neighbors. is there a social worker you can hire to check up on her every day. to make sure shes not bothering the neigbors or telling you here lungs are gone? maybe theres an agency that deals with people who cant be on their own, such as elderly people living alone. ring a few numbers she needs to find things and people to keep her busy so she dosn't harras you and steal from stores. does she have a job? maybe theres a program she can go to during the day for the mentally unstable. they have activities and sceduled thing for them like a day care for adults i think she wants attention so hire someone to pay attention to her. your mum is bored its like leaving a puppy or dog home all day, when you get home it will have peed on the carpet and chewed up all rugs, furniture and shoes Link to post Share on other sites
Author perfectlyunique Posted May 18, 2011 Author Share Posted May 18, 2011 your mum needs a professional to keep an eye on her and give her all the attention shes looking for from you and neighbors. is there a social worker you can hire to check up on her every day. to make sure shes not bothering the neigbors or telling you here lungs are gone? maybe theres an agency that deals with people who cant be on their own, such as elderly people living alone. ring a few numbers she needs to find things and people to keep her busy so she dosn't harras you and steal from stores. does she have a job? maybe theres a program she can go to during the day for the mentally unstable. they have activities and sceduled thing for them like a day care for adults i think she wants attention so hire someone to pay attention to her. your mum is bored its like leaving a puppy or dog home all day, when you get home it will have peed on the carpet and chewed up all rugs, furniture and shoes thanks for replying, thats the thing though she not a puppy or a dog shes a human. yes she has needs but her children and grandchildren do too. we have to put up with her. sorry if i sounded nasty its just shes taking the mick now. if she gets more attention she will never learn to be a confident person. She can do things for herself. she doesnt have a job because she was on benefits she claimed to have a back problem and had a walking stick, she took it everywhere with her. its funny now she can walk without a walking stick since shes become "crazy" i even went with her to a hearing to say she doesnt walk far because she finds it hard. she was lying to me! she can walk fine now she walks the streets with no stick asking people for fags etc etc ..she has let me down..i dont think i will ever forgive her. she wants attention for a 53 yr old its pathetic shes a mum and a grandmum she should realise what shes got before its gone Link to post Share on other sites
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