ludachris Posted May 11, 2011 Share Posted May 11, 2011 (edited) Is it normal or okay for a lot of you guys if your gf goes over to her guy friends house? What if it was a guy who you know she has hooked up with before yall went out? Edited May 11, 2011 by ludachris Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted May 11, 2011 Share Posted May 11, 2011 You have got to be kidding me. If the roles were reversed do you think she would be O.K. with you doing this? It sounds like that she does not have much respect for you or your relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ludachris Posted May 11, 2011 Author Share Posted May 11, 2011 Ya i know man i was definatly not okay with this but im not with that girl anymore. I just needed to get some insight on this. Sometimes I feel like I was too insecure in the relationship for getting upset when she would do things like this. Link to post Share on other sites
John Michael Kane Posted May 11, 2011 Share Posted May 11, 2011 Ya i know man i was definatly not okay with this but im not with that girl anymore. I just needed to get some insight on this. Sometimes I feel like I was too insecure in the relationship for getting upset when she would do things like this. Dude if your chick is fooling around with another dude that's not your insecurity talking, that's your inner voice telling you to drop the tramp. Link to post Share on other sites
Leigh 87 Posted May 15, 2011 Share Posted May 15, 2011 I am seeing a guy, not even seriously, however I did a pretty sh*tty thing similar to you ex... I had sex with a hot body builder at my gym. His body is physically perfect. He is very hot. Then, after I started seeing the current guy, he body builder texts me and wants to reach out and be friends. Once I like a guy, I am very loyal and want them only and no other guy. So, when he body builder asked if I wanted to hang out, I agreed. He came to my house and watched DVDs with me. THere was no way I would have done anything with the body buildar; as I said, once I like a guy he is all that is n my mind and there is no way I want other guys ( I would nt BE with a guy in the first place if I fancied other men). While I had NO inention to do anything sexua with th hot body buuildar I had the fling with, it was still lacking in intergety; I would NO like the roles if the were reversed. I WOULD HATE it if my guy spent time waching DVD'S with an ex girl of his who was a model. LOL! he lesson being; I like guys I see, and I had NO desire to do anything with the hot guy I was with, however, it is stull goin gto feel awful for the guy I am seeing, so I will not be doing it again. Link to post Share on other sites
Maxish Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 You already know the answer too that. Don't let her make you feel like your in the wrong for caring if she cared about you she wouldn't go there so be straight up and tell her how you feel. Then tell her she can stay there if she chooses too go. Link to post Share on other sites
alexlakeman Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 She f)cked him and still visits him when she's your gf? LOL, you're kidding me? Think about it.. she's seen him naked, etc.. do you even think he bothers getting dressed when he answers the door or just answers the door in his underwear, for example??? The reason I mention is that how it's been with me and and ex gf who has a boyfriend.. she works by my home, so once in a while will drop by to talk, we don't have sex, but I just open the door in my boxers.. hel) she's seen me already, why bother getting dressed. Link to post Share on other sites
samspade Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Whoah dude. Major no-no. And as Leigh said, it lacks integrity even if there's no sex currently happening. Your gf doesn't respect you - otherwise she would never put herself in a situation where her loyalty to you were in the slightest doubt. Link to post Share on other sites
Leigh 87 Posted May 20, 2011 Share Posted May 20, 2011 I would like to point out that after I did it, I knew that it was wrong, ad have not and will not do it again. I realized that I would not like it is my guy asked a hot girl he had hooked up with over for DVD's..... Only reason I did not see how wrong I was at the time was because when I am into a guy, I really like them and just assume they do not have to worry, cos I know in my own heart that I only want them ad there is no way I want other guys. Obviously, it does not change how it will feel for the guy. Link to post Share on other sites
ice salamander Posted May 20, 2011 Share Posted May 20, 2011 Even though nothing happens when they're hanging, It's BS. She knows she can get away with it, look at your reaction. "Am I being too insecure?" WTF, start thinking/acting like a man, man! Link to post Share on other sites
Silivren Posted May 21, 2011 Share Posted May 21, 2011 I just want to interject something here - from a completely different point of view. I actually have friends that I have had sex with but have no feelings for and my current bf of 1 year has absolutely NO PROBLEM with that. One particular friend of mine is a massage therapist and helped me out after a car accident. We have been intimate but he is married and I am with someone and it means absolutely nothing. My bf is not jealous in any way because he trusts me and he knows I would never do anything to jeapordize our relationship. So just saying - it IS possible to have hooked up with someone and really just be friends. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedGuy28 Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 Or he's cool with it because he's seeing other girls anyways (evil, i know) Link to post Share on other sites
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