Sarah12385 Posted April 11, 2004 Share Posted April 11, 2004 hey everyone! well, as the thread description read, i'm adopted, and have been "trying" to search for my biological mother for about 3 years now. i am 19 years old, have 2 wonderful parents, i don't know what i'd do without them or where i'd be. when i was born, the girl who had me was 15 or 16 years old, and before i was even born, the adoption was set up. i have talked to my adoptive mother *and* father about wanting to look for my bio mom, but, it didn't go over so well. they were supportive, but the pain i could see in their eyes was killing me. my mother cries whenever i bring the subject up, and i just can't deal with that anymore, so i've decided it would be better if i just do this myself, and if i *do* find my bio mom, i would most definitely tell my adoptive parents what i've done. the whole process of searching tho has been next to impossible. my adoption was closed, so records of my birth are rather hard to find. i've posted many posts on adoption websites, tried searching newspapers from 1985 to see if there was a trace of *any*thing. i live about 20 mins from the hospital i was born at...was thinking of maybe stopping by some day and just ask them there up front. what do you guys think? ~Sarah~ Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted April 11, 2004 Share Posted April 11, 2004 I am also adopted, I cant look for my parents, i was born india and was found at the hospital, no records. Your parents shouldnt feel bad, you wont love them less. If I was in your position I would look. Link to post Share on other sites
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