omgimascrewup Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 So im seeing someone who is already in a relationship. He tells me he loves me and im everything to him all he wants to do is be with me. he says that his reltionship with his gf is at the end and he seems to be waiting for her to end it, i kinda feel like it will never happen i dont understand why he doesnt just leave her? its really getting me down because all i want is to be with him and i kinda feel like im being strung along. i dont know what to say to him because i dont want to sound like im pushing him. Link to post Share on other sites
CrestfallenNoMore Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Probably not. He has the best of both worlds. Link to post Share on other sites
Woman In Blue Posted May 14, 2011 Share Posted May 14, 2011 He says that his reltionship with his gf is at the end and he seems to be waiting for her to end it, i kinda feel like it will never happen i dont understand why he doesnt just leave her? He doesn't leave her because he doesn't WANT to leave her.What a pus*sy - he's waiting for HER to leave? Coward.its really getting me down because all i want is to be with him and i kinda feel like im being strung along. LOL...ya think? i dont know what to say to him because i dont want to sound like im pushing him. Why don't you tell him to quit lying to you for starters? Your story is as old as the hills - I've heard it over and over and over and over. And guess who loses in the end? You do. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted May 14, 2011 Share Posted May 14, 2011 Why would you start a relationship with someone already IN a relationship? Talk about looking for trouble. To answer your question, no he probably won't leave her. She is only his girlfriend, no legal ties or children (right?), so there is no reason he hasn't already other than he doesn't want to. The solution is simple. Go NC. This guy is no good for you. At the VERY least, call him and tell him you will not speak to him or see him until he is SINGLE. Seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
vsmini Posted May 14, 2011 Share Posted May 14, 2011 Will he leave her? Maybe. Probably not. So - you want to be with a guy that will only be with you after his girlfriend dumps him because he doesn't want to do it himself - there's a winner. So then you'll be with a guy and always wonder if it wasn't for HER then you wouldn't have him? You also don't want to tell him what you want because you're afraid of what he'll think - so you communication sucks too. Get rid of this guy and only date SINGLE men. Link to post Share on other sites
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