HaHa0709 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 (edited) Why is it so hard to find at least one good female friend? It seems like all my girlfriends have been scattered over the country with families and careers and we talk less and less. Maybe it’s just hard to meet friends at this age (30s). I am married and my husband is my best friend obviously, but it would be nice to have some to get a mani/pedi with or grab a glass of wine. Am I the only one having this issue? The other thing is I don’t even really know how to go about it. I volunteer at different places and have met a few people but no one that really clicks or isn’t a flake. Edited May 13, 2011 by HaHa0709 Spelling error Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Why is it so hard to find at least one good female friend? It seems like all my girlfriends have been scattered over the country with families and careers and we talk less and less. Maybe it’s just hard to meet friends at this age (30s). I am married and my husband is my best friend obviously, but it would be nice to have some to get a mani/pedi with or grab a glass of wine. Am I the only one having this issue? The other thing is I don’t even really know how to go about it. I volunteer at different places and have met a few people but no one that really clicks or isn’t a flake. Ever heard of the pity fck? With this attitude sounds like you are looking for a pity friendship. You want a gal pal then you go out there and get it! Getting women is a numbers game, even when friendship is all you want. When’s the last time you actually invited some one out for a glass of wine or a many petty? (if it’s longer then a week you obviously aren’t trying) (don’t give up keep trying) Link to post Share on other sites
Mr.Raindrop Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Nah, I have trouble making good friends as well. The only difference between us is that I'm not in my 30s. Its good that you volunteer at places, your're bound to find someone that will "click" with you soon enough! If you come across someone that does, maybe you should try taking the initiative with being friends and ask them to do something with you? Link to post Share on other sites
little.skittles Posted May 14, 2011 Share Posted May 14, 2011 I'm not really one to give advice on this sort of thing as I have trouble meeting people myself. It's really hard to make a connection with someone, especially when you hardly see them. Sometimes people appear to be flakes but there might be somebody a little interesting that you could start a conversation with and go from there. A lot of the people I work with don't really strike my fancy eiether. I try not to judge a book by it's cover but just the way some them act, they are not my kind of girlfriends. I would say maybe join a yoga class or some sort of group where you could meet someone more compatible. Link to post Share on other sites
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