nini Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 Hye billion, I'd be grateful if you could send me a copy as well on [email protected]. Many thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Graciestrong Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 If you dont mind,can you please send me the magic of making up.my boyfriend of four years just dumped me for another girl.ever since then he has given me mixed signals.we were suppose to get married this year too.would really appreciate it.thanks.my email id is [email protected] yeah anybody have win back love by matt hudson too. Link to post Share on other sites
Graciestrong Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 If you dont mind,can you please send me the magic of making up.my boyfriend of four years just dumped me for another girl.ever since then he has given me mixed signals.we were suppose to get married this year too.am doing NC right now.would really appreciate it.thanks.my email id is [email protected] yeah anybody have win back love by matt hudson too. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 This book, life changing for me, as confirmed me that my ex is a commitment phobe and that those dynamics of Push/pull are very attractive to this type of persons. They, for one, can't commit to love but also can't commit to LOOSING totally their loved one. They're trying to stand between those commitments. Absolutely brilliant book.. that teaches that there is really nothing you can do to have a SATISFYING relationship with the commitment phobe. Watch out.Yup! My ex-husband is like that, too and he plays the push-and-pull game. He also loves to make me jealous. These men love a challenge, they run from clingy women. However, it's not clear whether Billion's ex is a commitment phobe - maybe he has his reasons for not wanting to marry her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author billion Posted May 25, 2011 Author Share Posted May 25, 2011 I seriously think he is a commitment phobe. Link to post Share on other sites
BrianG Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 could you please kindly send me the book as well. [email protected] Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 NC brings a small number of ex's back, but not many from what I've seen on LS, so it's not correct to say 'NC really works' if you mean in getting partners back, but it works if it is done to move on and heal, which you seem to be doing, which is great My ex of 18 years, left me 3 times in all, he did come back the 2nd time as I cut contact with him to move on and he didn't like that, but he left for a 3rd and final time 10 years later. I guess NC can bring some people to their senses and realise how much they lost and then they regret it, but every situation and person is different, break ups happen for so many different reasons that NC can't (and doesn't) bring all ex partners back! Link to post Share on other sites
Jimmy_Hugh Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 Would Like to get your advice on my situation!! Was with my girlfriend for 3 years and she decided to ended it about 4 months ago. I know certain things was not the same in the last 3 months of our relationship but anyhow!! I really love her still and thought she was my love of my life so am finding it hard. Throughout these 4 months we have both said not to have contact but that didn't really work. The other day she randomly txt me asking if I am dating this girl and I said no then she decided to drop that she has been speaking to another man and is going for a drink with him (which has hurt alot but oh well) after this I told her to leave me be because I need to finally get time to get my head round it all again. But once again she has txt me saying how sorry she is and how much she cares for me and worry's about me. And knows I will move on (which is definatly not on my mind at moment) I didnt reply to these txts and haven't spoke to her all week now? I just am so confused what is going on with her and why she won't leave me be for abit? Any advice will be much appreciated? Link to post Share on other sites
Author billion Posted May 26, 2011 Author Share Posted May 26, 2011 Hi Jimmy, you should start a new thread about this, I'm sure you'd get a lot of advice if you do so. Link to post Share on other sites
tbsfw Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Hi Billion...like many others I'm wondering if you'd please take the time to email "the magic of making up." sur***[email protected] is the addy. thank you in advance. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
tbsfw Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 sorry, they bleeped my email cuz is has UK in it and an f before that. Try again: so you can put an f a u and a k in place of the asterisks..... OR [email protected] is my other email. thank you Link to post Share on other sites
jacksonBrown Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 hey could you please send me a copy of the magic of making up to: [email protected] thankyou very much Link to post Share on other sites
clumzeekrnboi Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Hey! I was interested in the book too! can you email it to me at [email protected] Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
dicky_fish Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 Like everyone else seems to be asking, can you email me a copy of The Magic of Making Up? [email protected] Link to post Share on other sites
Shtubes Posted June 21, 2011 Share Posted June 21, 2011 Hi could you send it to me as well...Thank you very much [email protected] Link to post Share on other sites
Andrew80 Posted June 21, 2011 Share Posted June 21, 2011 I am wondering if no contact works with someone who is extremely stubborn. My ex gf is so stubborn its almost like a game to her just to say she outlasted a standoff. Link to post Share on other sites
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 I'm not for manipulating someone. going NC, keeping the conversations short, and acting like you don't care isn't manipulation. that's you wanting to heal faster, not wanting to tell him your life story (and why should you if he's your ex), and keeping your emotional guard up. thanks for your post, I like seeing experiences where the dumper changes there mind, I think it's because it gives me hope that one day my ex will come back and like you, I don't want her back any more. Link to post Share on other sites
RN2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Billion, Can you please send me a copy of the ebook as well? [email protected] Link to post Share on other sites
LovelyDaze Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 NC brings a small number of ex's back, but not many from what I've seen on LS, so it's not correct to say 'NC really works' if you mean in getting partners back, but it works if it is done to move on and heal, which you seem to be doing, which is great My ex of 18 years, left me 3 times in all, he did come back the 2nd time as I cut contact with him to move on and he didn't like that, but he left for a 3rd and final time 10 years later. I guess NC can bring some people to their senses and realise how much they lost and then they regret it, but every situation and person is different, break ups happen for so many different reasons that NC can't (and doesn't) bring all ex partners back! Hey HoH- I followed your posts a year or so I ago during my bad breakup and I agree, NC works if you want to heal for yourself and move on to a better situation. I'm going through what billion is experiencing. A part of you does get a certain amount of elation that your ex is beating on your door. For me, I am at that odd stage of indifference. Strangely, my ex is now married yet texting me little "cutesy" messages that I do not respond to ever. NC can't be used as a tool to get your ex back, it can only be used as a time of growth, healing, and understanding of one's self worth. Link to post Share on other sites
Kuite09 Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Hi Loverboy! For your information, I haven't left my boyfriend. He left me when I wanted to discuss commitment... If I understand correctly, your girlfriend is the one that walked away. Then, you should be the one that keeps going NC. I have to admit I've read a book that was recommended here in the forum: The magic of making up. Have you read it? The book does offer great tips when you use the no contact. Let me know if you want to read it, I can email it to you. It may be time for you to contact her BUT, I suggest that you take time to fully prepare for that and really feel ready... the book really helps for that part. To Sunsetred: Thank you! That is so kind! I'm really happy you enjoyed my post and happy my English readable (it is not my first language . I'll be checking this FB group for sure! I really need to learn that too: to keep balanced and centered in relationships.. for some reason, up to now, I couldn't really do it. The actual situation is putting light on this problem and I tend to solve it, I want to change that. Thank you for sharing!! Very interesting 0hpenelope, I guess you are right. It does work for any kind of relationship. Hi Billion, Awesome thread How is the book "the magic of making up" Can you try to send it to me as well. [email protected] Thanks so much. Link to post Share on other sites
pr0_str3et Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 Hey billion, i read your story and its quite nice. But i'm not sure if NC really works. well i have got a situation here. Could you please read it on my thread. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t284686/ And yeah scroll down a bit and then read it, cause i used shortcuts and people dont seem to get what i was talking about. Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
londonbloke Posted July 6, 2011 Share Posted July 6, 2011 This thread is great! I'm just about to engage in NC (minus having to sort the flat out, ugh!) after a pretty heavy thee weeks after being dumped. NC definitely seems the best way to go...either you leave it long enough that you don't want them anymore or they beg you to take them back and YOU get to choose. Win-Win. Link to post Share on other sites
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